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Old 10-13-2011, 11:53 PM
 
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I felt bad to my husband about asking this kind of question since I have this username.

 
Old 10-13-2011, 11:55 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ChinoCochinoswife View Post
I felt bad to my husband about asking this kind of question since I have this username.
He gave me permission to ask.
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:00 AM
 
Location: So-Cal
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I tried to stop my wife from quoting herself and instead just edit the original post but she wouldn't listen. Women, can't live with them, can't live without them.
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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I think I would get tested for HIV.. Seriously, good advice.. Divorce might be the second step. Assuming this all happened after marriage and he didn't change his ways or something like that before you married.
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:13 AM
 
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He did it all before marriage, but I knew the truth after we married. He told me he usually had a HIV test once in a while. He had a test again before he decided to have a serious relationship with me.
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:16 AM
 
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Originally Posted by ChinoCochinoswife View Post
He gave me permission to ask.
He gave you permission to ask? How do you...er, how would you feel if it was your husband? Past is past so long as past is not present.

btw - Welcome "cochino's" wife.
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:30 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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Isn't Cochino Spanish for pig? lol
 
Old 10-14-2011, 12:44 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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Is the OP having a conversation with themselves?
 
Old 10-14-2011, 03:44 AM
 
Location: Virginia-Shenandoah Valley
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Some weird freakin people in this forum
 
Old 10-14-2011, 06:37 AM
 
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I would be unimpressed, especially if it was a regular thing. I would be particularly unimpressed that he waited until after marriage to come clean.

This is the kind of thing you talk about in advance of marriage.... or not at all!
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