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Me-divorced 15 years, no kids, Him -divorced 3 years and two girls 11 and 13. Horrible relationship with Ex. Compatible on so many levels and we had wonderful times but he is a terrible communicator. Leaves and withdraws when difficulties arise. Thursday he texts that he cant give me the time or comittment I deserve. by TEXT????? Am crushed. What to do? Have been lurking on this site for months and know there are some really insightful people here..
Me-divorced 15 years, no kids, Him -divorced 3 years and two girls 11 and 13. Horrible relationship with Ex. Compatible on so many levels and we had wonderful times but he is a terrible communicator. Leaves and withdraws when difficulties arise. Thursday he texts that he cant give me the time or comittment I deserve. by TEXT????? Am crushed. What to do? Have been lurking on this site for months and know there are some really insightful people here..
I know it hurts and I sympathize but consider yourself lucky.
Don't think all those good times were separate from who he showed himself to be. When people say they can't give you what you want, believe them!
Me-divorced 15 years, no kids, Him -divorced 3 years and two girls 11 and 13. Horrible relationship with Ex. Compatible on so many levels and we had wonderful times but he is a terrible communicator. Leaves and withdraws when difficulties arise. Thursday he texts that he cant give me the time or comittment I deserve. by TEXT????? Am crushed. What to do? Have been lurking on this site for months and know there are some really insightful people here..
wow ..... so sorry you are going through this, but seriously, if that is the best he can do, you deserve so much better.
as myrevenge posted:
When people say they can't give you what you want, believe them!
he showed his true colors. learn from the relationship, remember the good times ..... but move on.
If he is a terrible communicator, count your blessings that you had only a year with him. It would have only gotten worse. Move on and find someone who is better for you. Do you really want a man who leaves and withdraws when there is conflict? Believe what he said in his cowardly text message and consider the relationship over. You deserve better.
Remember the Soprano's when Tony broke it off with one of his girlfriends and said..."In time you'll get over it" and she said "In time you'll be dead and I'll come to your funeral in a red dress!".....
Take a little time for your self maybe get away if you can swing it. But I agree your better off now. Your still young and it's a big world out there. Your going to be just fine.
Don't waste your time trying to get a better rejection.
This. Just let him go and move on.
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