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You know how some girls obsess over when a guy will call or whether to call a guy and how they conclude that they need to FIGHT the urge to contact him - when they really like him?
Similarly, do guys ever go through any anxiety in waiting for a reply from a girl? Perhaps waiting for her to return a call from the voicemail you left? Or reply to a text or email?
Hmmm. Not really.
Anxiety like that is pretty much mostly based on looks and physical attraction and I just don't roll that way...
If I don't know a woman well, then I won't be anxious over her no matter how hot she is.
If I do know a woman well enough to like her, then there should be no need for the push/pull games.
I used to be like that when I was younger and less jaded.
I remember torturing myself waiting for women I was infatuated with to call me back. Meanwhile they were out getting drunk and looking for other guys...
You know how some girls obsess over when a guy will call or whether to call a guy and how they conclude that they need to FIGHT the urge to contact him - when they really like him?
Similarly, do guys ever go through any anxiety in waiting for a reply from a girl? Perhaps waiting for her to return a call from the voicemail you left? Or reply to a text or email?
heck yeah. ya never know why they're taking forever to respond! could be one of three things: they don't wanna talk to you cos they're not interested, they don't wanna talk to you because they are interested and wanna string you along for a bit till you're committed, or they're just busy.
You know how some girls obsess over when a guy will call or whether to call a guy and how they conclude that they need to FIGHT the urge to contact him - when they really like him?
Similarly, do guys ever go through any anxiety in waiting for a reply from a girl? Perhaps waiting for her to return a call from the voicemail you left? Or reply to a text or email?
Hell yes, and I hate waiting 2-3 days to not seem over eager. I think thats B.S., but evidently I'm wrong.
Hell yes, and I hate waiting 2-3 days to not seem over eager. I think thats B.S., but evidently I'm wrong.
what is this 3 day rule? I've never had a guy who liked me wait 3 days to call. the ones who didn't just never called again or only wanted one thing and waited at least a week. any normal girl is going to assume disinterest from a guy that waits 3 days to call. In fact waiting 3 days to see each other again if you live close enough is weird too. but that's me.
I'll spare you all with a long story; but in short, yes, waiting for that girl to call is torture, sometimes.
cute! probably not to you though...
for me, I don't know if it's torture necessarily because I really like the guy. Sometimes it's just because I don't like being rejected. Even if i don't like the guy, no one likes being rejected.
what is this 3 day rule? I've never had a guy who liked me wait 3 days to call. the ones who didn't just never called again or only wanted one thing and waited at least a week. any normal girl is going to assume disinterest from a guy that waits 3 days to call. In fact waiting 3 days to see each other again if you live close enough is weird too. but that's me.
Mir, well, it seems the game has changed. I never believed in waiting. Now you have to appear like you "have something goind on" and are a busy person. You're dating others or whatever. I don't get it. For the record, I don't wait, but they also never answer the phone or call back. Thats been my experience since my divorce. I must be doing something wrong. How else do you explain fun 5 hour dates and then a blow off?
it's not torture, have a life geez. There's so much going on in the world, so much to do and all you can think about is someone replying to a phone call or a txt message.
It's not even about dating other people, it's about having a balanced life. Set your own rules.
I wish I could say I was above it, but I'm not. For me the worst is waiting after the initial call. If I leave a message I hate just sitting around waiting to see if she's going to call me (must be how girls feel when they give a guy their number).
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