Delusional male friends and how you approach them (dates, marry, female)

[JosephV55]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

Guy A: Indian guy in his late 30s with a very good job working in databases. Definitely not what women would consider physically attractive for the most part, but he makes a decent salary (about 180K). His preference (*cough*) is for blonde white women in their 20s. Are you gagging yet? ...

No, that is simply his preference. We all have preferences.

Why is he not allowed to have his simply because of his looks?

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by JosephV55

No, that is simply his preference. We all have preferences.

Why is he not allowed to have his simply because of his looks?

He is but he won't have much success.

[xxbabeechick]

Originally Posted by Lucario

I thought women didn't much care about looks? Champagne tastes and all?

It's all relative, but women aren't nearly as shallow as men.

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

It's all relative, but women aren't nearly as shallow as men.

Yes they are.

[xxbabeechick]

Originally Posted by WakaFlocka

Yes they are.

Nope...because they don't suffer from delusions to the same level as men do. (Re: Studies say that men think they are far more attractive to women than they are.)

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

Nope...because they don't suffer from delusions to the same level as men do.

Wrong. Women are very much as delusional as men. Men in regards to looks. Women in regards to social status, income, and popularity.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

It's all relative, but women aren't nearly as shallow as men.

Then maybe you should isolate yourself from men and make everyone happy.

[xxbabeechick]

*Sigh* Sorry to put some men on the defensive with the truth.

[jobaba]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

It's all relative, but women aren't nearly as shallow as men.

I used to think men were more shallow, just because that was society's consensus opinion.

But after combing this message board and others, and my real life experiences, now I think women are more shallow.

One thing is for SURE. Women are a lot more narrow in what they find physically attractive.

I might have previously said that women are more likely to be swayed by someone they weren't physically attracted to, but this thread:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-not-been.html

made me rethink that...

[jobaba]

And here...

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...n-11-16-a.html

Just the record, I don't really care. No matter if women or men are more shallow or whatever, it doesn't change what I have to do...