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Condoms - I hate them and have a performance problem with them which makes for very interesting situations if one has sex early in a relationship where the girl cannot (or will not) go on the pill. When I slip the thing on I lose everything and I cannot get it back until I remove the damn thing off...if you know what I mean! Any ideas of how to deal with this issue?
With my ex I actually didn't have sex until I could get her on the pill but I feel I should try some other method for condoms to work...I am reading a bit and looks like this is quite a COMMON problem for men...
Other than that...I know a lot of guys complain about condoms but I have never heard of one (of my friends/acquaintances) who refused to wear a condom. If your problem is reduced sensation perhaps you can try "sensitive" condoms that are a little bit thinner. Or you can try some type of warming gel or other lubricant that is designed to increase sensation. Some work, some don't.
hahahahahahah, oh man this has put me in some VERY uncomfortable situations.
One thing I learned, when you put it on.. do it when you're either standing or on your knees. Problems come up when you put them on when you're on your back.
Never had a problem after I realized this Gotta admit, I was traumatized at first
Sounds like you are the one putting it on. Have you tried asking your partner to put it on for you? There are various different methods that might help you keep your arousal while she gets it in place.
hahahahahahah, oh man this has put me in some VERY uncomfortable situations.
One thing I learned, when you put it on.. do it when you're either standing or on your knees. Problems come up when you put them on when you're on your back.
Never had a problem after I realized this Gotta admit, I was traumatized at first
Good thing I have been subconsciously following this rule for ages. Of course now it doesn't matter because I get to ride bareback.
hahahahahahah, oh man this has put me in some VERY uncomfortable situations.
One thing I learned, when you put it on.. do it when you're either standing or on your knees. Problems come up when you put them on when you're on your back.
Never had a problem after I realized this Gotta admit, I was traumatized at first
Lmao, this is amusing...but I am getting the visual, & it makes sense to me
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Originally Posted by Bosco55David
Good thing I have been subconsciously following this rule for ages. Of course now it doesn't matter because I get to ride bareback.
Hmm, I suggest you have some solitary "practice" sessions at home, to get the timing down. Then when you are "performing" with an audience, you will have the routine down, because you have been practicing.
I have always offered to help my partner with this, for some reason lots of men have the same problem you have, you are not alone.
I feel I should try some other method for condoms to work.
Good luck with that.
At least you can get one on. I can't even do that. If I might be so bold as to offer a suggestion, be up front about it -- you'll avoid a lot of problems (that's something I learned). Ask the right questions and screen well, and you won't have any regrets. I've never had an STD or an "unwanted" pregnancy, so you can have a real good time without wearing your galoshes.
Not taking a shower with my clothes on...
Mircea
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Gotta admit, I was traumatized at first
