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View Poll Results: divorce or not?
Yes 17 77.27%
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:03 PM
 
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Ok, I wrote a recent thread about knocking another woman up, well I also got married on the 15th of November. Which six days earlier I had cheated on her, since we've been married I have not cheated on her or talked to other women. But everytime my wife and I get in a fight, she brings up how I cheated on her. She is always saying that I must be screwing another women or talking secretly to another woman behind her back. Its starting to become annoying, I even had an app on my phone to where she could text a key word and the response in the text would be my GPS location and my current speed. I got so tired of her doing the key word about ten times a day that I just deleted it. IDK what to do, she gets meaner and meaner as the days go on, sex has died down and I get depressed when I come home. What would you do?
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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So you cheated on your fiancee six days before marriage, and you (I assume) knocked another woman up recently as well?

Dude- if your wife is gorgeous and has money- I'd say you have hit the trifecta of a perfect wife, cause it's obvious she's got stoopid down pat. She married you...
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Ok, I wrote a recent thread about knocking another woman up, well I also got married on the 15th of November. Which six days earlier I had cheated on her, since we've been married I have not cheated on her or talked to other women. But everytime my wife and I get in a fight, she brings up how I cheated on her. She is always saying that I must be screwing another women or talking secretly to another woman behind her back. Its starting to become annoying, I even had an app on my phone to where she could text a key word and the response in the text would be my GPS location and my current speed. I got so tired of her doing the key word about ten times a day that I just deleted it. IDK what to do, she gets meaner and meaner as the days go on, sex has died down and I get depressed when I come home. What would you do?
WHY did you marry her???

Time to grow up and do the work to fix this mess you've created.

Seek some professional help so that you can uncover why you make such rash, self centered decisions and deal with whatever issues you have underneath it all.

Divorce should not be an option unless and until you earn your way out of the marriage by doing the hard work to try to save it first (not counting abusive marriages).

Get busy.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:11 PM
 
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no, as a matter of principal she should divorce you.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:11 PM
 
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Ok, I wrote a recent thread about knocking another woman up, well I also got married on the 15th of November. Which six days earlier I had cheated on her, since we've been married I have not cheated on her or talked to other women. But everytime my wife and I get in a fight, she brings up how I cheated on her. She is always saying that I must be screwing another women or talking secretly to another woman behind her back. Its starting to become annoying, I even had an app on my phone to where she could text a key word and the response in the text would be my GPS location and my current speed. I got so tired of her doing the key word about ten times a day that I just deleted it. IDK what to do, she gets meaner and meaner as the days go on, sex has died down and I get depressed when I come home. What would you do?

Why would you get married when you cheated on her six days before you made it legal. Cripes, that should have been your first clue right there.

If I were her I would have already kicked you to the curb but I'm just like that.

So to answer your "What would you do question", I'd kick your ass to the curb and take you for everything you've got, then I'd burn it all just for fun but that is only after I've made your life a miserable living hell for 10 years before I legally divorce you.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:35 PM
 
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Why would you get married when you cheated on her six days before you made it legal. Cripes, that should have been your first clue right there.

If I were her I would have already kicked you to the curb but I'm just like that.

So to answer your "What would you do question", I'd kick your ass to the curb and take you for everything you've got, then I'd burn it all just for fun but that is only after I've made your life a miserable living hell for 10 years before I legally divorce you.
What should you do? ^Participating in this one sounds about right.

Your depressed when you get home and the sex has died down? Apparently the sex has died down with your wife but was all hot and heavy on 11/9 with your friend.

Just think about how your sex life is going to die a miserable death once your wife finds out a special delivery from the stork may be on its way.

There were instructions in your other thread that you should smack yourself. That's the other thing you should do, repeatedly.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:41 PM
 
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no, as a matter of principal she should divorce you.
This.

But a lot of women who get cheated on are really unhappy but like to stay anyway and torture the guy. THIS IS UNCONSCIOUS FOR THEM but I have seen it happen dozens of times. As a result, you should divorce her for not being a good husband because she won't do it.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:47 PM
 
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....the ****?
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:47 PM
 
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Ok, I wrote a recent thread about knocking another woman up, well I also got married on the 15th of November. Which six days earlier I had cheated on her, since we've been married I have not cheated on her or talked to other women. But everytime my wife and I get in a fight, she brings up how I cheated on her. She is always saying that I must be screwing another women or talking secretly to another woman behind her back. Its starting to become annoying, I even had an app on my phone to where she could text a key word and the response in the text would be my GPS location and my current speed. I got so tired of her doing the key word about ten times a day that I just deleted it. IDK what to do, she gets meaner and meaner as the days go on, sex has died down and I get depressed when I come home. What would you do?
Divorce.

But YOU never should have gotten married in the first place, since you admitted to cheating on her six days before the wedding.

Leave or get counseling.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:53 PM
 
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no, as a matter of principal she should divorce you.
I agree! Some men are just sorry excuses for a husband and don't deserve a woman of any kind. My advice to be get a divorce and set this woman free, she doesn't deserve having to be tied to you.
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