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Is it wrong to assume there will be sex the first time you meet your FWB? Seems I've been meeting virgins that allow everything else to happen until I reach for their *****ing belt.
If you haven't previously met, how can you be friends already? Sounds more like a FB/hookup that you're describing. Eventually, that could evolve into FWB if you also become friends. But at this stage, it's anything but FWB.
How exactly are you setting up these dates with your FWBs? I don't see why virgins would agree to be friends with benefits in the first place. Are you just assuming they want that?
And yes it is wrong to assume you'll have sex with anyone the first time you meet them, unless they're escorts or prostitutes. Friends with benefits are supposed to be safer and more fun than a one night stand. You still need to have chemistry, attraction, etc.
If sex is the only thing you're looking for, see the aforementioned escorts!
Is it wrong to assume there will be sex the first time you meet your FWB? Seems I've been meeting virgins that allow everything else to happen until I reach for their *****ing belt.
Finding the right FWB is tough.
Date rape much?
The part about FWB you are missing is that you are friends first, benefits come later so yes you would be way wrong to assume there will be sex the first time you meet.
Is it wrong to assume there will be sex the first time you meet your FWB? Seems I've been meeting virgins that allow everything else to happen until I reach for their *****ing belt.
Finding the right FWB is tough.
What you are describing is certainly not a FWB situation.
I agree, and I want to add, FWB are usually not planned. I've had a couple of FWB over the years, but it always happened organically. It sounds like you are trying to set out to meet a FWB, and I've never known anyone in a FWB relationship who planned it before even meeting. It sounds like what you are looking for is a woman who will meet you and have sex with you right out of the gate, and if that's the case, you might want to just avoid future frustration and call an escort service.
How can the first time you meet someone be a friends with benefits deal? First you have to be friends. Later on is when the benefits come along, and you both have to be in agreement.
You can't just meet a person and think you are allowed to start undressing them. WTH?
Maybe it would be better for you to find non-virgins for casual, sexual hookups.
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