When a guy sometimes talks for a long time and sometimes doesn't want to talk, (date, women)
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is it time to move on? I'm interested in this guy and sometimes he talks to me for a long time and says hi and looks happy when he sees me. Then sometimes he just ignores me and doesn't want to talk at even when I initiate the conversation?
Not an issue and I wouldn't say its a "moody" person. That sort of person is reality. Stop watching TV. Real peoples lives are full of ups and downs. Particularly busy people or people with alot on their plate. Who also happen to be in many cases, successful people.
He's not that into you. When you are convenient, then at that time you are convenient. When he has anything else to do, or is with someone that he doesn't want to know that he spends time with you, then you aren't convenient.
Really busy men will at least smile, say hi, and let you know they are too busy to talk at the moment. They don't ignore you if they care about you, even marginally.
If he has some sort of mood disorders, that is a very good hint that you should walk away. Mood disorders or not, his manners are very bad, which is another very good hint that you should walk away.
Mood disorders or not, his manners are very bad, which is another very good hint that you should walk away.
Good point.
He also might only like you as a friend. It's sometimes hard for men to find male friends they can really talk to, so they like to have female friends. The whole line about men only being friends with women to get in their pants is bs. Sometimes .
It's hard to decode what "mixed messages" mean, when someone seems interested off & on, blows hot & cold.
Maybe he has mixed feelings, and is undecided about how he feels towards OP, thus is acting both interested or not-depending on his sentiments in the moment, which seem rather changeable.
If you ask him, I hope he owns up to that behavior, and that he has the self-awareness to recognize if he does have internal conflict/uncertainty-or if there's another explanation.
some times i will go three, four weeks without talking to anybody, not upset, not mad, i just dont want to talk
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