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Old 03-28-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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TW0 things...if she is willing to bare a child for you...then you should pay...if it is just sex...looks like you are paying anyway...if she is riding you like a beast of burden and not contributing anything...get someone that is a team player.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:43 PM
 
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I cant tell if you are being sarcastic, or serious? Honestly, I agree with him. I feel she should contribue at least a "small" amount. Where do people get off thinking that just because someone ELSE has worked and made money, that they should be able to live off of them?? Why, because she spreads in bed for him and cooks him eggs?? I thought there was a term for that type of arrangement.
LMAO! Yeah, well, whatever it is, he's clearly NOT down for it and needs to tell her so.

I'm wondering if he did and if so, what was the outcome of the conversation?

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I would be totally greatful, and I would be absolutely ASHAMED not to contribue SOMETHING.
But you WOULD be contributing SOMETHING.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Can you say, "Sugarrrrrrrrrrrr Daddy" ? Lucky her- she has a sweet deal -

It sounds as though you're being taken advantage of.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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You're right. I don't care about the money figure. It's the attitude towards the situation that I don't like. If she had a better attitude towards the situation I would have no problem at all and I wouldn't have taken the time to write this post.
Why haven't you explained this to HER?

If you did, what did she say?
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:44 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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You're right. I don't care about the money figure. It's the attitude towards the situation that I don't like. If she had a better attitude towards the situation I would have no problem at all and I wouldn't have taken the time to write this post.



I absolutely know the feeling, as I have experienced that type of 'attitude' when I have helped certain people out. They start to act like they are entitled.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Texas
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She's a gold-digging P.O.S.
Dump her.
God, I can't believe the entitled fools parading around out there...
The fact that she had the GALL to say that stuff to your face. Ugh.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:48 PM
 
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She's a gold-digging P.O.S.
Dump her.
God, I can't believe the entitled fools parading around out there...
Yeah! Neither can I.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:49 PM
 
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Why haven't you explained this to HER?

If you did, what did she say?
She said she was raised in a culture where the men take care of everything for the woman in their lives. I've met her family and that it how her father has raised his daughter and has completely enabled the mentality she has.
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:49 PM
 
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How old is this girl?
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Old 03-28-2012, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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ok folks... here's a story about Minnie the Moocher
she was a red hot hoochie coocher

The fact that she's going to community college for grad school seems rather..... strange. Shouldn't she be working on her bachelors first? You're not her dad, and even her dad shouldn't be paying for her. No one deserves to be treated like a baby their whole life.

Think about what you told us dude... you're paying for a girl to mooch off of you and do whatever because you're getting sex... come on man, grow a pair.
I thought the same. Usually people who have low gpa's go to community college to build up to a 3.0 and transfer to a college to get their B.A. After that they transfer to a graduate school. I don't know anyone who went to graduate school that went to a CC first. Not to say it can't be done, I guess. I'm curious to know where exactly they live and what school she's going to. If they live that far, my guess is she couldn't get into a local CC based on gpa or test scores.
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