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Early this morning, something woke me up. Well anyway, I got up and saw a couple lights in the next room. My computer was still on (I thought I had turned it off earlier that night).
I checked my facebook, and guess who talked to me.
She was surprised that she had made an impression on me. She had very sweet things to say about me, she related a story about a mutual friend of ours (an incident that occured when I was a Sophmore in High School) that left her destroyed, just like her cousin's passing ripped me apart.
She also put me down about her not having romantic feelings for me in the kindest and gentlest way possible. I couldn't even be sad, I was in fact, very relieved. She didn't want to hurt me, she knew I was hurting, but in effect of NOT trying to hurt me while putting me down, in a way she HEALED me. It's going to be so strange knowing I can never have her, but I am greatful that she took the time out to speak with me, and I'm greatful she made an impression on me in those bad times.
What has finally resolved? Maybe you should ask a mod to merge this into one of your other threads, because you're assuming too much knowledge on the part of your readers.
What has finally resolved? Maybe you should ask a mod to merge this into one of your other threads, because you're assuming too much knowledge on the part of your readers.
Please take note, that I wasn't quite right in my thinking processes back then. The grief and guilt literally ate me alive. Then it suddenly ended one day 4 weeks later when I finally went to my friend's grave and addressed it. A very warm and gentle feeling went right through me and the pain ended.
Please take note, that I wasn't quite right in my thinking processes back then. The grief and guilt literally ate me alive. Then it suddenly ended one day 4 weeks later when I finally went to my friend's grave and addressed it. A very warm and gentle feeling went right through me and the pain ended.
some times you gotta pay the dues to sing the blues, its a brand new day today kid
Early this morning, something woke me up. Well anyway, I got up and saw a couple lights in the next room. My computer was still on (I thought I had turned it off earlier that night).
I checked my facebook, and guess who talked to me.
She was surprised that she had made an impression on me. She had very sweet things to say about me, she related a story about a mutual friend of ours (an incident that occured when I was a Sophmore in High School) that left her destroyed, just like her cousin's passing ripped me apart.
She also put me down about her not having romantic feelings for me in the kindest and gentlest way possible. I couldn't even be sad, I was in fact, very relieved. She didn't want to hurt me, she knew I was hurting, but in effect of NOT trying to hurt me while putting me down, in a way she HEALED me. It's going to be so strange knowing I can never have her, but I am greatful that she took the time out to speak with me, and I'm greatful she made an impression on me in those bad times.
I am having a tough time understanding why people have lost the "talent" of being able to converse with people in person and have chosen the cowardly way out to confront friends via Facebook?? Isn't Facebook suppose to be a fun, social thing? I have found that the only thing Facebook manages to accomplish is to get people fighting back and forth and destroy families.,why? Well, you cannot possibly put any kind of inflection into a conversation on there and when you do, most times it ticks people off when it is not meant to. I am glad you are content with how she "dumped you" but at the same time a face to face confrontation might have also been nice.
I am having a tough time understanding why people have lost the "talent" of being able to converse with people in person and have chosen the cowardly way out to confront friends via Facebook?? Isn't Facebook suppose to be a fun, social thing? I have found that the only thing Facebook manages to accomplish is to get people fighting back and forth and destroy families.,why? Well, you cannot possibly put any kind of inflection into a conversation on there and when you do, most times it ticks people off when it is not meant to. I am glad you are content with how she "dumped you" but at the same time a face to face confrontation might have also been nice.
She didn't dump him. They were never together.
Closure is good. Time to concentrate on yourself and work on your mental state. You have your whole life ahead of you so enjoy it.
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