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Old 04-01-2012, 11:47 AM
 
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I'm Asian and it's fine for me.

If we start dating seriously, she'll see there's more to me than just being Asian.
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Old 04-01-2012, 11:50 AM
 
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A white girl recently told me she has been only with black guys (eight of them). Not all of them were her boyfriend, either.

I felt sort of weird because she is trying to get with me, but I wonder if she likes me, or just the idea of me. There aren't many other blacks around where we're at. I feel that I could just be someone fulfilling her racial fantasy, but I could very well be replaced by another black.

Does anyone else feel this way?
I never gave a damn. If a woman wanted to get with me, cool. Her motivations were irrelevant.
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Old 04-01-2012, 11:53 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I never gave a damn. If a woman wanted to get with me, cool. Her motivations were irrelevant.
huh? this don't sound too good. you should have some kinds of standards...
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Old 04-01-2012, 12:31 PM
 
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Good post, thanks. I'll have to delve deeper into her reasons.
Yeah I would just take the opportunity to see what her intentions are. I've dated a few like that before and they were all different. Just keep an open mind.
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Old 04-01-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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huh? this don't sound too good. you should have some kinds of standards...
I do. They have to be human and female.
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Old 04-01-2012, 01:23 PM
 
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I do. They have to be human and female.

Just being honest, I would never want to be with a guy that thought like this. The 'I will take anything with a vagina' is not flattering.
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Old 04-01-2012, 02:31 PM
 
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Just being honest, I would never want to be with a guy that thought like this. The 'I will take anything with a vagina' is not flattering.
I wouldn't tell you.
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Old 04-01-2012, 02:41 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I wouldn't tell you.

well that's even worse, but not surprising that you're deceitful. also that kinds of desperation come across in a man. I have had guys say that before anyways, that they will take just about anything....to each his own, maybe some women don't care but I would.
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Old 04-01-2012, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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ROTFL!! This line wasn't even supposed to be funny, yet it has me on the floor.

I can't believe so many people out there obsessing over race.

And I'm sure some Bozo will inevitably stick their nose into the thread with their tedious, finger-wagging lecture, "You know, if you're not attracted to Asian men (or black men, or white, purple, green, red, brown men), then you are RACIST!!!"ZZZZZZZZ.............
I couldnt have said it better.
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Old 04-01-2012, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Corvallis, Oregon
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If it's all about looks, I could never be interested in someone like that.

It could be a cultural thing, as I believe there are general cultural differences between races, BUT with a lot of exceptions. Sticking my neck out on this one ...

Her comment would make me uneasy about having anything to do with her, but knowing some more depth to what she was thinking might make it okay, or it might make me not want to be anywhere near her, depending on what's behind it.
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