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Originally Posted by Dave_n_Tenn
is your brain. When removed from the equation (marriage) you will always get the wrong answer. Doing the same thing over and over and expect different results is a definition of insanity.... and Robbie the robot said... "danger Will Robinson....danger"!!
Communication has very little to do with words... it has everything to do with.... the ability to invoke feelings. OK.... going out on the proverbial "stupid said this" limb
Women need to feel lovely ... Men need to feel respected... and in that order. Easy to say... hard to do.
You must define what lovely means to you as well as what respect means. If a woman has no self respect, then how can she give the very thing he needs? and if a man is not capable of expressing love... then how can he give her what see so desperately needs?
Wow! That's deep!
I appreciate getting such good advice from so many different people.
Originally Posted by loose cannon
Sex is overrated and a outright display of animalistic tendencies that should be kept in check. I really could deal with a low sex relationships as in maybe once or twice a month. And, I despise women who moan. Classy, respectful women just lay there and smile.
All I can say is you have got to be kinding!!!
Can someone say he's got no smack in the sack?
I'd lay there to and just smile if I was bored out of my mind!
Sex is overrated and a outright display of animalistic tendencies that should be kept in check. I really could deal with a low sex relationships as in maybe once or twice a month. And, I despise women who moan. Classy, respectful women just lay there and smile.
HAHA...I've just layed there and smiled before because there was nothing else to do and I didn't want to offend him. It was horrible. What would I do if my spouse decided to abstain from sex with me? Most likely find a divorce lawyer because something is wrong. I do believe there is a certain level of reduced sex after marriage, but to completely so no to my spouse? That is not happening.
HAHA...I've just layed there and smiled before because there was nothing else to do and I didn't want to offend him. It was horrible. What would I do if my spouse decided to abstain from sex with me? Most likely find a divorce lawyer because something is wrong. I do believe there is a certain level of reduced sex after marriage, but to completely so no to my spouse? That is not happening.
I just wanted to clarify, his wife was not saying completely no. Perhaps you should re-read his first post.
And, I have to say that if you are going to run to a divorce lawyer "because something is wrong", you may want to evaluate how compassionate you are as a spouse in general. Marriage may not be for you if you can't think of anyone but yourself.
I just wanted to clarify, his wife was not saying completely no. Perhaps you should re-read his first post.
And, I have to say that if you are going to run to a divorce lawyer "because something is wrong", you may want to evaluate how compassionate you are as a spouse in general. Marriage may not be for you if you can't think of anyone but yourself
Ummm...maybe YOU should re read the original question. He did began to wonder what he would do if his wife decided to abstain from sex and asked what we would do. If the "something is wrong" is so bad that we are going to be unhappy and miserable with each, you bet I will see a divorce lawyer. We'd try counseling too but if it doesn't work, it's not worth living in hell over. I've also noticed that a huge reason for a man abstaining from sex from his wife is because he has a little skank on the side...I wouldn't live with that. A man can also have "problems" and that would be NO reason to divorce over.
P.S. You are right...marriage isn't for me at all.
Ummm...maybe YOU should re read the original question. He did began to wonder what he would do if his wife decided to abstain from sex and asked what we would do.
I stand corrected. You are right, my apology to you on that. I have been fighting a sinus infection for over a week now and I think it has clogged my brain. Beth
Can someone say he's got no smack in the sack?
I'd lay there to and just smile if I was bored out of my mind!
Thats great! I couldn't agree more!
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