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Look - you don't need support for things like - he asked me how I was doing. And the key to any relationship is COMMUNICATION. If you have a problem with him - you need to tell HIM. You need to talk it out with HIM. You are not having a relationship with US - you are having one with HIM. WE can't make you feel better about things. WE can't tell you what he's thinking or how he's feeling. You have to talk to HIM. Please - the next time you are upset about something - take a step back. Think about it. Are you getting upset over nothing? If so - let it go. Move on. If you think there is really something wrong - talk to him about it.
OH, major red flags, I think you need to leave him ASAP. Its best if you pack your bags now and run for the border, and never talk to him again. Anyone that would say "how are you" to his girlfriend must be really really sick in the head. He might be a pedophile or inspiring cult leader. Dont walk, RUN!!!
Bf of 2 years called me on phone on his way home( we live togehter), say" hi it's me" so I said hi back, then he said" how are you?"
It felt so wierd to hear that, it just felt so distan
does it feel weird to you guys that your partner greet you as " how are you?"
My gf texted me a "Sup?" earlier today. I didn't think anything of it. But we've been together about 4 years, and seeing as how you've been with your bf two, I'd consider it a sign that he's comfortable in the relationship, which any way you dice it is a good thing.
Sometimes, I text my gf a "Good morning, beautiful!" and sometimes I just go right into "Hey, don't forget to call so-and-so". No big deal. As is often the case in relationships, interpretation is usually more of a problem than any given behavior in and of itself. Does my gf not run to the door and greet me when I get home because she doesn't love me anymore, or because our toddler has been driving her crazy and she's physically and emotionally spent? Most likely the latter.
What could possibly be wrong with asking how you are?
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