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I'm 38. I tend to like women in their 20's. I'll probably like this demographic until I die.
Why? Is it because of their youthful good looks? Or just their young not ready to be married and settle down outlook on life?
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How big of a age gap is acceptable for you?
I've never placed an importance on a person's age. I never went around asking how old a new friend's age was. As long as we get along personality-wise and with our interests, anyone can be my friend. And as to my dating pool, unless a man is good enough to be my best friend, I'm not dating him.
And I've dating men both older and younger than me, and thought it no big deal. The oldest man I dated was about 12 years my senior, however at the time I was in my 20's. However, over the years, I am less keen to want to have a romance with a man too much older than I am. Why? Because being 53, dating a man who might be in his 60's and older means that should I fall in love with him, staying with him for the long run translates into my eventually becoming his caretaker. And unless he is financially secure and can afford to have others tend to his senior needs, I'm not interested in being his free nurse.
My stepdad's grandmother's second husband was about 15 years older than she was. When I first met them, they were a happy older couple. But later on, I could see that once he was in his mid-seventies, he needed to stay close to home, but she was still wanting to travel and enjoy life. Yes, she loved him, but we all could see the unhappiness and how she had to compromise with her life during the last ten years of his life.
Statistically speaking, on average women live longer than men by seven years. And we age better also.
BTW even though my bf is 23 years longer than me, we actually like the same music, cars and have a similar outlook on life. And we both hate cellphones and the texting thing. He's like a older guy but in a younger body!
So basically you're never looking for a long-term relationship? Because women DO age out of their 20s, ya know.
My parents were 16 years apart. It was a disaster. I'll consider a 10-year age difference but nothing more than that.
There are PLENTY of women in their 20s who will date a man in his 40s if he manages to maintain his appearance or makes bank. But I wouldn't hold your breath for anything that's particularly meaningful or lasting. It COULD happen, but here's the thing. You don't sound like you're looking for marriage. So why would a good-looking and intelligent 20-something want to hang around with an older guy who's going to trade her for a newer model when she gets older when there are also PLENTY of young, hot 20-something guys with good earning potential who are perfectly happy to get married in their 20s/early 30s?
I'm 38. I tend to like women in their 20's. I'll probably like this demographic until I die.
How big of a age gap is acceptable for you?
First, you need to learn that there is a difference between what women say they think versus what they do. This is a "what do you think" question, so you will get typical rules like "3 under, 5 over", "no more than 7". But the real answer is it depends on you and your potential date/mate. Do you have the attraction factors to be able to meet, chat up, date a younger woman? Is she open to dating you/older men?
I read in another thread that 50% of women will not date older guys (socialized dogma); 30% are open to dating older guys with the right guy; and 20% have no problem with it for various reasons (trophie wife, sugar daddy, childhood issues, experimental, etc).
Finally, stop worrying about your age. If you think it's an issue, it will be the first thing that comes up, you will give off the creep factor vibe before you know it. Go rent out the movie Tao of Steve...
First, you need to learn that there is a difference between what women say they think versus what they do. This is a "what do you think" question, so you will get typical rules like "3 under, 5 over", "no more than 7". But the real answer is it depends on you and your potential date/mate. Do you have the attraction factors to be able to meet, chat up, date a younger woman? Is she open to dating you/older men?
I read in another thread that 50% of women will not date older guys (socialized dogma); 30% are open to dating older guys with the right guy; and 20% have no problem with it for various reasons (trophie wife, sugar daddy, childhood issues, experimental, etc).
Finally, stop worrying about your age. If you think it's an issue, it will be the first thing that comes up, you will give off the creep factor vibe before you know it. Go rent out the movie Tao of Steve...
Isnt that the truth. I wonder how people justify a typical hookup for a lady. its normaly someone exactly opposite to what she says she's looking for. Truth is, age doesnt make a whole lot of difference when it comes to guys, it is even sometimes a plus for seasoned guys as men tend to gain status with age.
I'm in my 20s, I don't care about age as long as he's younger than my dad. Though I have other very strict requirements: he needs to have the maturity of a 30-something but with the attitude, positive outlook and energy of a 20-something. He also has to be hip, young at heart, and doesn't talk like an old man. Also, no grey hair.
I'm in my 20s, I don't care about age as long as he's younger than my dad. Though I have other very strict requirements: he needs to have the maturity of a 30-something but with the attitude, positive outlook and energy of a 20-something. He also has to be hip, young at heart, and doesn't talk like an old man. Also, no grey hair.
I must be getting old, because I find grey hair totally hot.
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