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Old 08-10-2012, 08:09 AM
 
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Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope View Post
How do you know?

I have been on both sides of the fence and I can tell you, the amount of people posting about their social issues just really makes me shake my head.

Everyone is shy as a child. You either get over it, realise it's NOT ALL ABOUT YOU, or you don't.

It's a sign of maturity.
No my friend it's a sign of maturity not to attack people who stay to themselves and don't bother anyone. Hey you hate shy people? Maybe we should just be a-holes. It really doesn't matter because people like you will hate us anyway.
I don't see how someone who stay to their damn selves is selfish. Just face it you are wrong.
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Old 08-16-2012, 02:34 PM
 
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seriously, i wonder if the vast majority of guys, men, are instinctively, naturally born with "Game", as in they are literally born knowing how to approach and talk to women, flirt with them, making them attracted to them, getting them to be their girlfriend, overall, being able to get a girlfriend, is it all genetic? because it seems like most guys, like once they hit puberty, or since high school, they were naturally born knowing how to approach and talk to girls from day one, etc. So it is genetics?
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Old 08-16-2012, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I don't think talking to women as if they are people has anything to do with genetics.
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Old 08-16-2012, 02:41 PM
 
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I don't think talking to women as if they are people has anything to do with genetics.
i'm talking about, referring to as in talking to women as in building attraction with them, as in making them attracted to you(not forcefully), but just overall, guys that struggle when approaching and talking to women, too many awkward silences, pauses, run out of things to talk about easily, etc.
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Old 08-16-2012, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Originally Posted by DavieJ89 View Post
Why do you say its impossible?

Dude....this time last year, I was in the SAME situation as you....and you know what I did?

Get ready for the BIG secret.....

The secret as to why other men are successful with women yet you arent....

The secret that could potentially get you liad TONIGHT.....

The secret that could change your life....

And that secret IIIIIISSSSS (drumroll please)

TALK TO WOMEN LIKE AS IF THEY ARE THE NORMAL PEOPLE THEY REALLY ARE! <<<<<<<<<BING BING BING BING BING, WE HAVE A WINNER FOLKS!

If you simply approach a woman and talk to her as if she were a friend, you will find things go MUCH smoother. Try it seriously, it will work. It did for me, I got 3 numbers this past weekend when I went out
This is the advice that every man should follow. Its funny how some men will be in a group talking about sports then a hot girl chimes in then they clam up.
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Old 08-16-2012, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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It is literally impossible for me to talk to women that I find attractive. Should I get therapy or get some medication?
Why do Americans think personal problems can just be medicated away?
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Old 08-16-2012, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Practice talking to everyone.
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Old 08-16-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: West Hollywood
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Ecstasy will make you extra friendly
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:23 AM
 
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Men who can't approach women, who can't talk to women, who are afraid of women, probably have no female friends. Perhaps they don't really like women. They just "need" them.
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:36 AM
 
Location: FL
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Ecstasy will make you extra friendly
For sure. If he's gone off that "Molly" he'll definitely have the confidence to talk to women.
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