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I have been on both sides of the fence and I can tell you, the amount of people posting about their social issues just really makes me shake my head.
Everyone is shy as a child. You either get over it, realise it's NOT ALL ABOUT YOU, or you don't.
It's a sign of maturity.
No my friend it's a sign of maturity not to attack people who stay to themselves and don't bother anyone. Hey you hate shy people? Maybe we should just be a-holes. It really doesn't matter because people like you will hate us anyway.
I don't see how someone who stay to their damn selves is selfish. Just face it you are wrong.
seriously, i wonder if the vast majority of guys, men, are instinctively, naturally born with "Game", as in they are literally born knowing how to approach and talk to women, flirt with them, making them attracted to them, getting them to be their girlfriend, overall, being able to get a girlfriend, is it all genetic? because it seems like most guys, like once they hit puberty, or since high school, they were naturally born knowing how to approach and talk to girls from day one, etc. So it is genetics?
I don't think talking to women as if they are people has anything to do with genetics.
i'm talking about, referring to as in talking to women as in building attraction with them, as in making them attracted to you(not forcefully), but just overall, guys that struggle when approaching and talking to women, too many awkward silences, pauses, run out of things to talk about easily, etc.
Dude....this time last year, I was in the SAME situation as you....and you know what I did?
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TALK TO WOMEN LIKE AS IF THEY ARE THE NORMAL PEOPLE THEY REALLY ARE! <<<<<<<<<BING BING BING BING BING, WE HAVE A WINNER FOLKS!
If you simply approach a woman and talk to her as if she were a friend, you will find things go MUCH smoother. Try it seriously, it will work. It did for me, I got 3 numbers this past weekend when I went out
This is the advice that every man should follow. Its funny how some men will be in a group talking about sports then a hot girl chimes in then they clam up.
Men who can't approach women, who can't talk to women, who are afraid of women, probably have no female friends. Perhaps they don't really like women. They just "need" them.
For sure. If he's gone off that "Molly" he'll definitely have the confidence to talk to women.
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