When meeting someone at first.... (guy, texts, mother)

[Mikala43]

Expect? No.

Though, do to schedules where phone calls were no really an option during the day... we texted everyday right from the beginning if I recall. That continued throughout the relationship, even though we spent about 5 nights a week together.

[Rhenzanite]

I REALLY hate talking on the phone. If you call me, expect it to be brief

I do prefer either talking in person, or texting here and there throughout the day. I like to keep busy and so a text message 'conversation' over the course of a day is much better to me than a phone call, but it's all personal preference.

[NDak15]

A text every day is way too much. That sounds like desperation, to be quite blunt. You have to take it slow. Texting every day should become a natural thing if an when the relationship progresses to a more serious point.

[doradocolibri]

Originally Posted by *Sweetkisses*

When meeting someone at first, do you expect to get a text from them everyday or is that too much?

depends on the chemistry between you two. if you guys click, than yeah. i can see a couple texting everyday, sharing thoughts with each other.

[Chi-turtle]

Depends on the two people. There's no universal rule. Some people like to be in contact often, some don't. Go with what feels right.

[strawberrykiki]

Right off the bat I don't think so. After a few months a daily text or call is good.

[intelfan11315]

Whenever I meet girls they text me a lot. It doesn't really bother me I talk a lot, but I was kind of surprised that one text per day was a lot. The girls I meet typically send multiple per day.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by *Sweetkisses*

When meeting someone at first, do you expect to get a text from them everyday or is that too much?

I don't like to be contacted every day via any means unless I'm REALLY into someone. I recently had to block someone because he was calling/messaging me every day, multiple times a day without even waiting for me to respond before contacting me again. This was someone from an online dating site and we hadn't even met yet. Stalker!!

[jasper12]

Ummm....I have a job...and can't text all day. Ugh. Stalker. Call me....

I don't even have texting on my phone. I make people call me.

[D. Scott]

I text quite a bit and enjoy it as I can keep in touch regularly with people in my life, Though It is not the same as a phone convo of course. If she is texting to say hello, Fill me in on her day etc it's fine.