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Old 05-28-2012, 04:53 PM
 
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There's this boy that I really have liked for around five months now and he's fun, cool and just totally the type of person I could see myself with. But we dont have your typical type crush relationship. We text alot but its mostly just joking about useless junk that either he or I make up, nothing serious ever. I like him alot but I cant tell for him, we've kissed before just some PG stuff, and and we went to prom together and we went out before but it was a group thing so I cant really call it a date. I know I like him but most of the time I try really hard to pretend I dont, and I have no clue how he feels about me. Should I just stop playing hard to get and just show him how I feel or keep coy and let him tell me how he feels first?
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Old 05-28-2012, 05:08 PM
 
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PLaying games is something you should learn to not ever do with a guy. If you like him you should probably tell him and stop playing before he finds someone else.
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Old 05-28-2012, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yep unless you are no conscious person. Like Nsync "Quit playing games with my heart...my heart.."
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Old 05-28-2012, 05:36 PM
 
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PLaying games is something you should learn to not ever do with a guy. If you like him you should probably tell him and stop playing before he finds someone else.
This ^ goes for both genders. Don't play games; be honest and forthright.


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Old 05-28-2012, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Massatucky
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You got it totally DIALED IN don't change anything you are doing. PERFECT.
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Old 05-28-2012, 08:23 PM
 
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Seems enough time has passed , he's had time to ask , he hasn't. If anything is going to happen it's your move. Ask him for a date. Good luck.
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:47 AM
 
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Yep unless you are no conscious person. Like Nsync "Quit playing games with my heart...my heart.."
Nope, that was actually a song by the inferior boyband, the Backstreet Boys.
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Old 05-29-2012, 09:52 AM
 
Location: NY
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My advice would be to tell him how you feel. Don't go overboard, just tell him you like him a lot and would love to go on a date.
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Old 05-29-2012, 12:52 PM
 
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I agree with the not playing games advice, but you don't have to spill your heart to him either. Try flirting with him, try making a "move" like getting close to him so he has an opportunity to kiss you or something. Spend time ALONE with him. If you make it obvious enough for men that you like us, we will take initiative and make it happen.

However, if you give off vibes like you're not into us and give us hidden meanings....we won't get it. We will take it literally. We will find someone else.

Best of luck to you!
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Old 05-29-2012, 12:57 PM
 
Location: FL
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I agree with the not playing games advice, but you don't have to spill your heart to him either. Try flirting with him, try making a "move" like getting close to him so he has an opportunity to kiss you or something. Spend time ALONE with him. If you make it obvious enough for men that you like us, we will take initiative and make it happen.

However, if you give off vibes like you're not into us and give us hidden meanings....we won't get it. We will take it literally. We will find someone else.

Best of luck to you!
This. Don't play games bc it gets you no where.

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