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View Poll Results: What do you prefer?
Hot, fine looking young girl (can be virgin too).... we guys don't care about brains 5 21.74%
Cute woman closer to my age but she has brains.... nonvirgin 12 52.17%
I guess either of them I can go for 4 17.39%
Other 2 8.70%
Voters: 23. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-30-2012, 11:11 AM
 
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What I've always noticed is many of my friends don't even care if a woman is smart. Certain 30 year-olds still are into dating 18 year old girls that either just got out of high school or are beginning life.

I don't know but as a 24 year-old who is about to graduate from college, there is no way I can relate to a girl that young no matter how cute she was. We wouldn't be on the same page and our conversations would be different.

Secondly, a girl that young might be a virgin too and I just don't have that patience anymore to start that whole ''take it slowly process and teach her''. I'm not a stud either (only had 4 gfs) but at the same time, I would want a woman that knows what she wants and isn't naivee. I don't want to feel like I'm dating a child who I have to teach but my equal.

I don't know if I'm demanding too much but what I look for a woman is the following:
1) cute with nice personality
2) Smart and ambitious
3) Nonvirgin
4) Closer to my age range
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Tower Grove East, St. Louis, MO
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I didn't answer your poll because I'm a woman, but what you're looking for sounds perfectly reasonable. Are you not meeting women in college who fit those characteristics?
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:20 AM
 
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I didn't answer your poll because I'm a woman, but what you're looking for sounds perfectly reasonable. Are you not meeting women in college who fit those characteristics?
I took a break from dating (was focusing on my studies mainly) but now I'm looking.
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:25 AM
 
Location: NY
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I suppose it depends on what your looking for.

If a man (or woman) is looking for more of a physical relationship, then maybe they are more into looks than other areas of potential compatability.

On the other hand, those looking for a relationship will be less focused on appearance, and be looking for compatability of maturity, interest, intelligence/knowledge, plans and goals, etc.

I didn't include sexual experience since I do not think, for a long term relationship, the number of past partners, or frequency of partners or occurances is necessarily important. A couple still must learn and grow with each other in those regards.
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:29 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Certain 30 year-olds still are into dating 18 year old girls that either just got out of high school or are beginning life.

FYI, most guys who do this usually have issues...lol
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:31 AM
 
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odd thread. do u really need a poll or are you trying to validate some other agenda?

And why are you so concerned about virgins and other guy's interest in women?

poser?
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:45 AM
 
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odd thread. do u really need a poll or are you trying to validate some other agenda?

And why are you so concerned about virgins and other guy's interest in women?

poser?
I was just making an observation (the woman can be as dumb as a post and as long as she's cute it doesn't matter to them). I had a couple friends of mine who end up breaking up and then complained about the relationship not lasting. Gee I wonder why!
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Old 05-30-2012, 11:54 AM
 
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FYI, most guys who do this usually have issues...lol
Yeah they are looking(perhaps subconsciously) for someone easy to control.
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Old 05-30-2012, 12:01 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Yeah they are looking(perhaps subconsciously) for someone easy to control.
This is a good point. Some ego-driven guys like women they can dominate, rather than be equal partners with.
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Old 05-30-2012, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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What about a woman with brain AND virgin? Would be that too much to handle??
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