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that's the main thing I'm looking for with a girl. I want a freaking girlfriend, and I want her to be cute so I want to cuddle and caress her that much more.
God Damnit, how long is this going to take? I'm so busy I barely get to get out
I had this happen to me a few months ago. I began to get these "urges." I got these urges to be sweet to a woman (not anyone specific, just at random). I wanted to say nice things to her, stroke her hair, rub her neck after a rough day, just things you would do to your partner to make her feel good.
Yeah I get them that's the part I miss about being in a relationship the most. Maybe one day... maybe not.
Wanting to do that for someone special seems o.k., but when you say random women, just any woman... what are you really saying here?
What I'm saying is these feelings aren't directed at a specific person. I don't have a crush at the moment, and I'm not yearning for anyone, but at the same time I want to act out these feelings.
What I'm saying is these feelings aren't directed at a specific person. I don't have a crush at the moment, and I'm not yearning for anyone, but at the same time I want to act out these feelings.
I came REALLY close to posting an ad on Craigslist for a cuddle buddy a while back....
I had this happen to me a few months ago. I began to get these "urges." I got these urges to be sweet to a woman (not anyone specific, just at random). I wanted to say nice things to her, stroke her hair, rub her neck after a rough day, just things you would do to your partner to make her feel good.
I'm just curious to know if this has ever happened to anyone else, and what I can do when I get these urges? I'd get weird looks if I went to a bar to pick up a woman so I can listen to her talk about her day, or pay a prostitute to run her a bath because she doesn't feel good.
I always have this desire. It's always there. Right along with the more directly sexual desire, of course. But it can be brought out by having a "crush" (word I don't normally use, but it fits), which means to have some insight into a woman and like her. This is unlike the more directly sexual desire, which can just be physical, even if I don't know the woman. At any rate, you sound maybe lonely? Desiring a relationship? The desire and urges you talk about go right along with my sexual desire. It's a package deal, for the most part. This is why I generally don't like the idea of prostitutes.
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Yes, I get them but about a man. Good to know I'm not alone.
Good to know a woman can admit to want to take care of a man without being shouted down by feminists. lol
I need some lovin', and I don't mean sex (although I won't say no to it of course lol). I've both craved affection from women and also giving/reciprocating it.
Dunno about the OP, but I've never had a GF. I'm sure even those who have still get these 'urges' now and then.
I had this happen to me a few months ago. I began to get these "urges." I got these urges to be sweet to a woman (not anyone specific, just at random). I wanted to say nice things to her, stroke her hair, rub her neck after a rough day, just things you would do to your partner to make her feel good.
I'm just curious to know if this has ever happened to anyone else, and what I can do when I get these urges? I'd get weird looks if I went to a bar to pick up a woman so I can listen to her talk about her day, or pay a prostitute to run her a bath because she doesn't feel good.
You could always do these things to random women on the street....but would probably end up in jail, or a mental institution.
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