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I can't believe there's any woman out there who is deluded enough to think their man doesn't get hard ons (probably all the time) over other women. Watching porn, seeing an attractive girl, fantasizing about some other woman.... this is life, folks. It doesn't mean anything, it's normal.
Ditto with women looking at, ogling or getting turned on by other guys.
Acting on it would be a major issue, obviously. But trying to control what goes on in another person's head--- a waste of time.
Are you f***ing kidding me? Hell no. Any guy that cannot control himself any better than that is seriously too immature to be in a relationship.
So you've actually owned a c*ck before and know that it is that easy to control it? Interesting! The same ladies that would get pi**ed off because he had a reaction to seeing a 10 walk down the beach are probably the same ladies that would wonder if he was gay if he didnt get a reaction!!
Last edited by Capt. Dan; 06-15-2012 at 09:35 AM..
Is it ok for your partner to be physically turned on by another, yes or no?
It better be. We live in a fairytale world where we are led to belive since the day we were born that there is only "one" love for us and then we'll live happily every after, blah, blah, blah. White picket fence all that good stuff.
Here's the thing. I can't speak for everyone obviously, but this is one post where I almost want to. (Kills me to do this),Err, "Most" of us think of others every now and then in fantasy. I understand this. Most people I think understand this. Yes, there will be someone who will say, "I only think of my women/ man/ husband/ wife, etc". Bull sh t on that one. I do believe (and this is where I'll brake my own rule) that we all fantasize about many different people throughout the course of our lifetime. If not just to get off for masturbation sake. That's weather we're with someone or not. I love my gf and I know she loves me. But do I fantasize about other women at times. Sometimes while we're doing it. Does she about some other guy or guys or scenario? I would assume sometimes. To think that she never since the day we became an "item" thought of another man would show some serious ego on my part. I don't think that way. Here's the difference. I am old enough to leave that question/ thought alone. I just wouldn't ask her something like that. I would assume that she does, like most of the rest of us and leave it at that. I wouldn't try to get her to lie to me about how she doesn't or hasn't. I don't think that would be too healthy. There are some things you just assume (weather you're wrong or not) and you leave it at that. I wouldn't want to know what her fantasies are. Just the ones that include me and me only and I'm the top dog. If she has any other bizzarre or interests in some other person, etc, I don't want to know about it. That's is one question that is better left alone.
Totally okay, when he is thinking about whomever, I'll fantasize about one of my pretend boyfriends...hmmm Johnny Depp, Anthony Bourdain, Robert Downey Jr... or the hot new trainer at my gym. :P it all works out.
Whoever worries about this type of stuff is insecure with their relationship.
I agree. You'll drive yourself crazy worrying about things like that. It's ok for them to be physically attracted to someone as long as they dont ACT on it.
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Unless the guy is between the ages of 16-19, he has control of it or has learned to control it.
As a 24 year old guy I assure you, that we don't have that much control of the "mast."
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