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If we have to listen to how a guy doesn't perform in bed, we can certainly listen to concerns over a tricycle.
I'm STILL trying to buy mind bleach on Amazon!
She has never even met the guy. Right now he is nothing more than an internet handle. Come on this is not in the same category as actually knowing a guys name (and meeting in person five times).
She has never even met the guy. Right now he is nothing more than an internet handle. Come on this is not in the same category as actually knowing a guys name (and meeting in person five times).
And if I met a guy five times I wouldn't know how he is in bed. Though, technically, I have no problem with the thought.
It's ALL valid. I won't demean you meeting a guy five times, if you don't demean her considerations having never met the guy.
It's all relative, and it's all valid. She is at least being introspective and considerate in her dealings with men.
She has never even met the guy. Right now he is nothing more than an internet handle. Come on this is not in the same category as actually knowing a guys name (and meeting in person five times).
Well, the OP did say
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who has been trying to get my attention for a couple of months but I have not responded
So, it seems she's heard from him more than once. If the trike is a turn-off, she needs to just cut him loose with a polite rejection so he knows to move on.
What's with the manufactured dilemma? Why have you created a thread about not responding to someone on a free dating site instead of simply forgetting about the guy? It kinda seems like you are using website for attention and drama, not to actually meet someone. No one harps on a couple of ignored dating site messages like this.
Stepka seems like a really nice woman. I doubt she is using anything for attention and drama. I think her questions are genuine.
Accusing someone of a "manufactured" dilemma and your subsequent remarks does seem somewhat demeaning.
Though perhaps you are not familiar with her through other posts.
Stepka seems like a really nice woman. I doubt she is using anything for attention and drama. I think her questions are genuine.
Accusing someone of a "manufactured" dilemma and your subsequent remarks does seem somewhat demeaning.
Though perhaps you are not familiar with her through other posts.
You should not be using the word "demean" in any form as you aren't using it correctly. That's my guess anyway because I can't believe you would continue to claim that I am doing that on this thread. It's an outrageous accusation.
There is a guy in OKC who has been trying to get my attention for a couple of months but I have not responded. The main reason is his profile picture and his apparently *very keen* interest in motorcycling. Now, I have nothing against bikes, my ex had 2 Triumphs and we often went out on long rides and overnight trips.
But this guy's motorcycle is...a tricycle. A really tricked out model with custom paint, and chrome, and etc.. I know you know what I am talking about.
I am having a hard time getting past the silliness of this vehicle, and how ridiculous I would feel riding on one of those. I want to be honest and explain why I am not feeling the interest, but I fear this is a shallow dealbreaker. But to be fair, this tricycle riding seems like a HUGE part of his lifestyle.
Anyone want to tear me apart for this?
ETA, just looked at more of his photos and he apparently has more than one of these things....
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I love you stepka, but buzz off! 
