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Old 07-15-2012, 01:53 PM
 
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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
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Old 07-15-2012, 02:10 PM
 
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Default Talk about a lacking subject title!

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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching
Abuse in general can "weaken" people in general, as in seeing to it that they are MORE LIKELY to experience and have to deal with emotional and psychological turmoil. I'm not sure what other handicaps may exist; it may also disrupt normal sexual development.

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and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
Hmm... Not being social (because you're shy, especially) can be seen as a "weakness" as well. There's a positive correlation between social activity and health (physical and emotional/psychological) so sure!

...Why?
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Old 07-15-2012, 02:12 PM
 
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Well since they see these women as 'damaged goods' and 'useless' to the male population guess that would be the same for them too.

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Old 07-15-2012, 03:27 PM
 
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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
How will any one know unless you share it with them?

You should feel free to date and have friends without having to confide your deepest traumas

Only later, when a special someone comes along would you have to talk about this. And if they care about you they will not see you in a bad way at all!

Meanwhile, seek some outside counseling to help assure you are healthy as possible for a real relationship.
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Old 07-15-2012, 03:42 PM
 
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Seems like there are more weak and emasculated men today, then ever before - but perhaps im wrong. Feminist movement has done quite a bit of good in its early existance, but today its only damaging to our population. Guys need to check in between their legs every now and then. True story.
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Old 07-15-2012, 03:44 PM
 
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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
"Seen as weak" by whom exactly?
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Old 07-15-2012, 03:44 PM
 
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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
I don't really understand this question. But I see the stereotypical macho guy as the weak one. The macho act results from not being secure enough in his masculinity. People who are secure don't have to show off.
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Old 07-15-2012, 03:50 PM
 
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I don't really understand this question. But I see the stereotypical macho guy as the weak one. The macho act results from not being secure enough in his masculinity. People who are secure don't have to show off.
I agree... as a man, I find when guys are overly macho, to be downright annoying. If you gotta go around beating your chest......

My dad is sorta that way.... he thinks he more macho than he really is.....
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Old 07-15-2012, 05:24 PM
 
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Seems like there are more weak and emasculated men today, then ever before - but perhaps im wrong. Feminist movement has done quite a bit of good in its early existance, but today its only damaging to our population. Guys need to check in between their legs every now and then. True story.
Very true! Nothing like having a tw*t instead of a twig...er let some broad steal it from you. Pathetic!!
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Old 07-15-2012, 05:39 PM
 
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those who were sexually abused as children and later on become sensitive to things touching and those men who are in their late 20s who never dated in their life?
I'll also explain that you can always tell the men who had to fight for everything versus the ones who didn't. If you are the type of guy that climbs down into a manhole and a rat runs accross your hand, do you think he is going to be the "deballed" type of man? No way in hell. The same as the crazy coot who has to get on a 40 story building roof in the middle of a driving thunderstorm. You earned your balls. Only pathetic men let a fem cut and snip you.
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