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Old 07-17-2012, 05:18 PM
 
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Lmao, I just recently received a text...from a guy I hardly know, who is WAY too young for me.
I even told him that to his face; I am not eager to hang out w/ a 20 something.
Yet when I answered his text (it took a minute to figure out who he is, lol) he calls me a player.
How do I just get the message through that I don't wanna date someone that much younger- & btw, I don't consider myself a player?
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Lmao, I just recently received a text...from a guy I hardly know, who is WAY too young for me.
I even told him that to his face; I am not eager to hang out w/ a 20 something.
Yet when I answered his text (it took a minute to figure out who he is, lol) he calls me a player.
How do I just get the message through that I don't wanna date someone that much younger- & btw, I don't consider myself a player?
Don't answer his texts.
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:20 PM
 
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Why do you need to get a message to him?
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:23 PM
 
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Sounds like you might like the idea of a younger man on your heels.

If you don't really want anything to do with him, it's pretty simple. Tell him. Mean it when you say it. Don't giggle.
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:26 PM
 
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Why do you need to get a message to him?
I can't go too much into details, but I have to convey the message to him- that first off I'm not gonna date someone that much younger, & second, that I am not a player.
Besides that I have a problem with persistence....I hate to be a bit*h, though & burst his bubble
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:43 PM
 
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Lmao, I just recently received a text...from a guy I hardly know, who is WAY too young for me.
I even told him that to his face; I am not eager to hang out w/ a 20 something.
Yet when I answered his text (it took a minute to figure out who he is, lol) he calls me a player.
How do I just get the message through that I don't wanna date someone that much younger- & btw, I don't consider myself a player?
Tell him his music sucks and you want a real man....



ZZ Top - My Head's In Mississippi (Official Music Video) - YouTube
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:47 PM
 
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Tell him his music sucks and you want a real man....



ZZ Top - My Head's In Mississippi (Official Music Video) - YouTube
Lmao his music DOES probably suck! And that's a huge turn off
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Woodinville
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Why does he think you're a player?

If he's someone you barely know and it took you a minute to even figure out who he is, why do you care?
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Old 07-17-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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Lmao his music DOES probably suck! And that's a huge turn off
Start questioning him. Do you like to do this? Do you like to do that? Do you remember this or that? Once he sees he's still wet in a diaper, he'll leave you alone. Ask him if he was a Cub Scout and a Boy Scout. If not, tell him you only date former high ranking men.
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Old 07-17-2012, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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How about "I'm not interested in dating men as young as you, even though you seem like a nice guy. I'm not sure where you got the idea I'm a player because that is so not the truth."?

Are you looking for another way to get the message across without saying anything?
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