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You would be wrong there pal. VERY-VERY-VERY wrong.
Hardly. People that know how to defend themselves don't go around starting trouble. And alpha males don't post 1100 times in less than a month, primarily in the relationship section of a forum. You average 40 posts a day.
one of my good friends from school overseas was one of these exceptions. Although in hindsight I would consider him an outlier. I've never met someone who could be considered a natural like this guy. Dude was an engineering student from the balkans, spoke at least 5 languages and is a hell of a multi instrumentalist. I know personally I learned a lot about confidence and really believing in yourself, plus it was a real impressionable time for me (first time away from home). Although as I said, dude is an outlier in the truest sense. Even when it came to things that dude wasn't inclined in (like writing, in english particularly), dude would admit it and brush it off like it was nothing. No ego trips etc, all this "alpha" just really comes down to being comfortable in your own skin and not blowing things out of proportion.
It is rare when a person can be plopped down anywhere and comfortably fit. It takes malleability, which is more common in youth (obviously). It seems to be more difficult for men ime, so that would make him pretty special.
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although we live in an age where lots of people in my generation equate self worth with the number of friends they have on facebook.
It must be weird for you. I came of age in the 90s. It was a great decade; good economy, great music (imo lol), limited technology, but enough. I loved it. I didn't have a phone, a TV (let alone a computer) and none of that was considered weird.
Part of being an Alpha male is not even being aware of it.
People tend to bend to my will and look to me for leadership. I don't know if that is from being Alpha or from having a mastery @ what I do. I have never needed a group of friends to have a good time and have been a lone wolf in the past. Also never had any sort of problem getting women and generally went after what I wanted without a care. That attitude seemed to make me even more attractive to them. In my teens I was the opposite and fell over myself to please women and generally got trampled over. What a world of difference time and experience makes.
No I always pay but do have expectations and needs if you feel the desire.
At least you're honest. Another alpha trait, i guess.
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