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Old 07-27-2012, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Montgomery County, MD
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i would never go home with a man i met in the sports bar in the first place. if I did I wouldn't have a leg to stand on to complain about 'good men.'

secondly, there are basically none.

but if you're a woman, you're in luck because so called 'good men' are bursting from the seams on the internet....
Nah thats ridiculous, there's way more good men than women, the ones who arent taken are just shy or ugly. There's very very few good women, most are bitter, crazy, gold digging or mean. The reason guys dont want to get married is that they know how miserable a woman will make them if they are tied to them forever

 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:28 PM
 
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To women a good man = unavailable dude who currently sleeps with 4 different women.
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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To women a good man = unavailable dude who currently sleeps with 4 different women.
Ew. No.

I only know one woman who thinks this way and she has crazy Daddy issues.
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:43 PM
 
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Ew. No.

I only know one woman who thinks this way and she has crazy Daddy issues.
JetJockey, i could never figure out how youre single. Looking at your pic, you should have dudes lining up for a shot to date you.

In my experience, women in general find guys with mul;tiple partners, very attractive. Guys who are unavialable also get a ton of attention from other women. Guys who are single and havent been laid in awhile are completely dismissed for the most part.
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:48 PM
 
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Men are starting to be more calculating about relationships.

Elegible men-att26602.jpg
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:49 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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JetJockey, i could never figure out how youre single. Looking at your pic, you should have dudes lining up for a shot to date you.

In my experience, women in general find guys with mul;tiple partners, very attractive. Guys who are unavialable also get a ton of attention from other women. Guys who are single and havent been laid in awhile are completely dismissed for the most part.
The only men interested in me seem to be as old as my Father, and that's just weird. Either that, or they stare at my boobs and brag about how much weed they have access too. I live in a very classy area.

I think it's because women figure 'well, he's popular with those girls and I want him because of that', which is an absolutely ridiculous way of thinking. If a guy is bragging about his conquests I usually roll my eyes and completely write him off as a possible dating prospect. I don't care if he has multiple partners, but the bragging is ridiculous.
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:52 PM
 
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There are a lot of good men out there but they aren't in bars
They aren't in church either. The business community is surviving by working them 70 hour weeks. No time to cater to whiny women, then and no energy or tolerance.
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:55 PM
 
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The only men interested in me seem to be as old as my Father, and that's just weird. Either that, or they stare at my boobs and brag about how much weed they have access too. I live in a very classy area.

I think it's because women figure 'well, he's popular with those girls and I want him because of that', which is an absolutely ridiculous way of thinking. If a guy is bragging about his conquests I usually roll my eyes and completely write him off as a possible dating prospect. I don't care if he has multiple partners, but the bragging is ridiculous.
I agree with you completely. On the opposite side are guys who never have women around and cannot get laid to save their lives and women think "well if they cant get a woman, there sure must be something worng with him, so i dont want him either" I could actualy explain both, but i dont think its a CD forum type conversation. Guys who brag about their sexual conquests are insecure little boys, not men. But its a whole different thing to demonstrate that you can be popular with the ladies, without the need to brag about it. Why dont you move?
 
Old 07-27-2012, 11:56 PM
 
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I find good quality men. Just none that I want to keep around for long periods.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 01:13 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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There are a lot of good men out there but they aren't in bars

they're always 'not in bars,' nobody knows where they are -- they're in enigma.
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