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If she's got a ten incher on the proudly displayed on night stand, that's probably gunna make me uncomfortable. If she cannot *** without the use of toys, that would probably be an issue too. A discrete vibrator is not a problem at all. I'd much rather have my girl getting off with a toy than some other dude while I'm not there/available. I also wouldn't mind using a vibrator on her clit and my tesicles while laying pipe to her.
Yes, but I don't think men getting upset by women watching porn is as common as women getting upset by men watching porn. I do know plenty of women whose boyfriends got upset about their toys though.
I would have to say that women read into a situation so much that it blows up completely.
Why put thoughts like, "Why is he looking at porn? Does he not find me attractive? Is he secretly lusting after a certain porn star? Yeah...that's probably it. He probably likes the blonde one with the gigantic ta tas. That's it. I'm a red head. Maybe I should die my hair blonde. Of course I wouldn't get the surgery for the giant ta ta's however I could make the changes in order for him to love me mo...(HONEY?!)...YES?!" "I'm in the bedroom."
I think an honest and open relationship where one mate or both don't fly off the handle when the other introduces something into the relationship. It's all about respecting the others ideas and wants.
I'm for anything that will help a woman enjoy sex. I know many guys frown on their women getting a vibrator, but that is foolishness on their part as far as I'm concerned. At our home, I was the one who brought up the idea of trying a vibrator, and I was the one who shopped and bought one. I had already had enough experience with them to know I didn't want to waste money on a battery operated model. I bought a Hitachi Magic Wand, probably one of the best on the market. It is not real noisy and has two speeds, and believe it or not, that darn thing never gets tired. Anything that will help a woman achieve three or four orgasms in a row is worthwhile looking into.
Three or four is not a lot, at least I don't think so.
Well, this thread has been interesting. I'm a woman who never needed or wanted "toys", I think they are hideous (I guess I am alone there). Why would you want or need an artificial thing on or in your body to give you a sexual experience.
If you are with the right guy it's just not necessary. Guys if you are with the right woman, you won't be having to bring fake equipment.
Okay, jump all over my case now. It's a free country.
Like anything else it all comes down to communication and knowing your partner. This is why I feel sexual chemistry is just as important as any other element of chemistry between a couple. Neither partner should feel as though they need to sneak off to watch porn or worry about their partner having inadequacy issues over a toy.
All that said, I can see where a one might feel mildly insecure if their partner is watching porn that depicts something you are not AND that is the only way they can get off. So if the guy can only get off to large breasted women on the screen but his wife is sporting an A cup she may feel intimidated or have doubts. If she has a huge black dong on the nightstand and her Irish husband is hung like a peanut there's a chance he'll feel inadequate.
So to answer the OP's original question--yes, a woman's toys CAN be the equivalent to men's porn if all things being equal; the couple isn't very good at communicating and/or there are major insecurities at hand.
Three or four is not a lot, at least I don't think so.
Well, this thread has been interesting. I'm a woman who never needed or wanted "toys", I think they are hideous (I guess I am alone there). Why would you want or need an artificial thing on or in your body to give you a sexual experience.
If you are with the right guy it's just not necessary. Guys if you are with the right woman, you won't be having to bring fake equipment.
Okay, jump all over my case now. It's a free country.
My take as well. The mental has always been as important as the physical. Seduction, teasing, flirting, kissing, foreplay. This is coming from a man
I think that a man my get upset if he feels like the woman may try to do something crazy, like stick the d*ldo or vibrator into his a*s. Personally, I would be ok with a woman's toys. You can have a lot of fun. A large red d*ldo in her a*s and me in her vag at the same time or the reverse. I would even encourage her to bring out the beads; alot of fun can be had with those things. Good times. There is a article in the June issue of GQ magazine that relates to this topic. It was a good read.
Okay let me get this straight. It's "crazy" for her to want to stick a dil*o in his butt ...but if you want to shove things up her stink star that's perfectly fine? You do know that the male prostate is easily accessible and he'd get more pleasure out of it then she could.
In this house, we all have the same parts from behind. If he thinks he's going there with me he best be prepared to receive as well.
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