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Old 08-02-2012, 12:23 PM
 
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Um, by nature, don't think so, by nurture societal influences possibly, but I don't believe you'll ever see a toddler of either gender reaching for any implement to cover their body or to stop touching their anatomy if left to themselves to explore. People don't become insecure about themselves without outside influences. How they let them control and or overcome them is another thing.
Yes, I actualy do agree with you, i didnt exactly mean nature as in nature vs nurture conversation. Youre correct that no one is born inhibited or insecure about themselves, but it is natural for women to be insecure by the time they reach adulthood, mostly due to social influences. I could have used a word like usual or normal, to be more precise.

 
Old 08-02-2012, 12:37 PM
 
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Agree! People are born blank slates and are molded by their surroundings.
That is not quite true. People are born with genetic predispositions which have a huge influence on who that child will be.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 12:37 PM
 
Location: North Hollywood
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I've heard women tell me toys can be addictive. One lady told me she had to lock hers in a case because she was using in 2 or 3 times a day and she felt that was a bit too much.

Are you guys aware that a lot of women who are raised in very strict families (e.g Muslims) use toys because they want to save themselves for marriage?

I've come across women who love porn too..some of them insist on having a porn video on whilst having sex
 
Old 08-02-2012, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I've experimented with sex toys before and didn't like them. I had some dildos and they did nothing for me so I threw them away. I prefer a real guy
 
Old 08-02-2012, 01:33 PM
 
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I've experimented with sex toys before and didn't like them. I had some dildos and they did nothing for me so I threw them away. I prefer a real guy
Arent you a virgin? ALmost all women prefer a real guy over a toy, but it doesnt mean there is no room for both. Ive dated girls with extremely high sex drive, who wanted sex 4-6 times a day, so toys have been a blessing in those situations. As much as I enjoy sex, you need to leave time to eat and drink water, and possibly have a little time for other life outside of the bedroom.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 01:41 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Arent you a virgin? ALmost all women prefer a real guy over a toy, but it doesnt mean there is no room for both.
No, I'm not a virgin. None of the sexual experiences I had were satisfying. I talked to someone about it & they suggested I explore my body with sex toys to find out what pleases my body. Well, I tried a few different dildos and disliked them all. None of them felt good, and it was incredibly boring.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 05:49 PM
 
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Most guys aren't going to want a huge d#ldo up their a*s. Some guys maybe fine with a finger but that's it. And definitely no beads up the hole.
I know lots of women that aren't too keen on it either. Just because it's a hole, doesn't mean it needs to be filled. Isn't 1 out of 3 good enough??
 
Old 08-02-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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I know lots of women that aren't too keen on it either. Just because it's a hole, doesn't mean it needs to be filled. Isn't 1 out of 3 good enough??
Sure, but 2 out of 3 ain't bad.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Sure, but 2 out of 3 ain't bad.
We talking about the meatloaf song???
 
Old 08-02-2012, 06:06 PM
 
Location: South Dakota
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One of my friends had an argument with her boyfriend after she tried to introduce her adult toy box into their love life.

While I've never encountered it myself, I have heard that some men have issues with ladies wanting to include toys in their sex life. Is this common? Are some men threatened by a vibrator (buzz buzz)? . Why would you not want to add a little variety?

Could this be the equivalent of a man upsetting his girlfriend/wife by viewing porn? Hmmm.


(Keep it clean, please.)
If it makes the sex better and/or more frequent, nobody should be complaining about an adult toy box. Fun, fun, fun until the insecure boyfriend takes the toy box away.
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