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Old 08-04-2012, 03:58 PM
 
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Don't make the mistake of having sex for sex sake- Take your time--nothing worse than the first intimate night...only to discover it was a horrid mistake....fall in love- both of you- no love- no sex...
Really?
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Old 08-04-2012, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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You get particular...My wife of 27 years continued to see each other after we separated...that was four years ago- only in the last couple of months has the relationship actually coming to a real end.... There was another woman who I knew for a year- I would run into her frequently walking the dog---finally after to much to drink I ended up in bed with her twice---It was in part to cause an emotional break from my wife- who I was still having sex with on rare occasions- I learned one thing- That I was not really attracted to this other woman- mentally - spiritually or physically..


I don't want to end my days alone- I don't mind not having a woman in my life- I have adult kids who I am close too...BUT at first I thought is was sex that I missed...and that sex was the goal...well............frankly I want to be in love..with exactly the person I really want to be with..All my life the woman chose me- this time I want to choose....also- looks- I might be shallow- but a beautiful face is important to me....Woman came easily - now being older and more negative...all I can do is hope for an angel- to be in love for the first time in 35 years-

There was no courtship with my wife- we got together and had four kids.........................It was not like we fell in love and I wanted to be with her..........SO- at this point I am like a 20 year old who has never been in love ----it's strange- I am not starting all over again-----I am actually starting for the first time- Good luck my friend.
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Old 08-04-2012, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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There was no courtship with my wife- we got together and had four kids.........................It was not like we fell in love and I wanted to be with her..........SO- at this point I am like a 20 year old who has never been in love ----it's strange- I am not starting all over again-----I am actually starting for the first time- Good luck my friend.

It's not the sex It's the sitting on the couch watching TV or a Movie or laying in bed talking or just goofing off some where. Going out to eat with someone holding hands, Etc. Okay I Do miss the sex but not as much as the other things I listed. This starting over thing sucks arse even more so when you have been out of the game for so long. Good luck to you as well.

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Old 08-04-2012, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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How did the date go, Reed? Did you sneeze fettuccine morsels into her cleavage?
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Old 08-04-2012, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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How did the date go, Reed? Did you sneeze fettuccine morsels into her cleavage?

I was nervous as hell to be honest it went well though.
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Old 08-04-2012, 05:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I was nervous as hell to be honest it went well though.
Cool.... I'm glad it worked out OK.


Is there a second date in the mix???
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Old 08-04-2012, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Cool.... I'm glad it worked out OK.


Is there a second date in the mix???

We talked about it but I haven't heard from her today. She had to drive to Fla to pick up her youngest son she should be back in town tomorrow. She said she was going to call but... hell I don't know to be honest with ya. Maybe she will maybe she won't. We talked about going out of town one weekend soon but if she doesn't call or text me then I guess we won't.
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Old 08-04-2012, 06:04 PM
 
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We talked about it but I haven't heard from her today. She had to drive to Fla to pick up her youngest son she should be back in town tomorrow. She said she was going to call but... hell I don't know to be honest with ya. Maybe she will maybe she won't. We talked about going out of town one weekend soon but if she doesn't call or text me then I guess we won't.
Isn't it moving kind of fast to go out of town after just having met her?
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Old 08-04-2012, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Tulsa, OK
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Don't write her a note.
My thoughts exactly. Learn how to spell. Nothing worse than a man that can't spell.
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Old 08-04-2012, 06:19 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think you guys are being a little harsh on the dude for the spelling.

I think overall he seems like a decent guy, based on his posts here.

I'm all for a good natured ribbing, but come on people. Jeeze.....

Let's judge the man for the content of his character.... as Dr. King would say......
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