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I was searching for something entirely different and I came across this article I thought would be interesting for some. Nothing new really, but a nice summary.
Her brain may disqualify him,
while her body says "yes."
When a man is anchored by his loving anima (yin) soul, he "wants" to give, protect and cherish
Once per week, she must "present" herself passively (yin) to receive men's attention. She can go to coffee bars, churches, dances, sports events, cultural events, educational events, and singles events. She flirts by looking into the eyes and smiling (yin), but NOT talking (yang) first. She speaks when spoken to; responds instead of acting first.
Duty dating is uncomfortable for Sylvia because she must receive pleasurable attention without the "passion" of fast sex, drugs or booze to alleviate the anxiety of passivity (yin). Sylvia is more comfortable giving, protecting and cherishing him first when he flirts with her. Giving BACK(yin) is alien to her. She Gives to Get (yang), not Gets to Give BACK (yin) and therefore pleasure is not the motivator; addiction to oxytocin is.
He only gives in the first dates or weeks. Then, he begins to use and abuse her helpless vulnerability due to her oxytocin addiction stimulated by him. (that's what chasing men basically is about and that's why it brings such "wonderful" results)
"Why Good Women Stay With Bad Men" by Dr. Pat Allen (http://www.drpatallen.com/EXC-goodwomen.shtml - broken link)
He only gives in the first dates or weeks. Then, he begins to use and abuse her helpless vulnerability due to her oxytocin addiction stimulated by him. (that's what chasing men basically is about and that's why it brings such "wonderful" results)
I was searching for something entirely different and I came across this article I thought would be interesting for some. Nothing new really, but a nice summary.
Her brain may disqualify him,
while her body says "yes."
When a man is anchored by his loving anima (yin) soul, he "wants" to give, protect and cherish
Once per week, she must "present" herself passively (yin) to receive men's attention. She can go to coffee bars, churches, dances, sports events, cultural events, educational events, and singles events. She flirts by looking into the eyes and smiling (yin), but NOT talking (yang) first. She speaks when spoken to; responds instead of acting first.
Duty dating is uncomfortable for Sylvia because she must receive pleasurable attention without the "passion" of fast sex, drugs or booze to alleviate the anxiety of passivity (yin). Sylvia is more comfortable giving, protecting and cherishing him first when he flirts with her. Giving BACK(yin) is alien to her. She Gives to Get (yang), not Gets to Give BACK (yin) and therefore pleasure is not the motivator; addiction to oxytocin is.
He only gives in the first dates or weeks. Then, he begins to use and abuse her helpless vulnerability due to her oxytocin addiction stimulated by him. (that's what chasing men basically is about and that's why it brings such "wonderful" results)
"Why Good Women Stay With Bad Men" by Dr. Pat Allen (http://www.drpatallen.com/EXC-goodwomen.shtml - broken link)
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Why Good Women Stay With Bad Men
