Question for black women by a white guy (marriages, family, ugly)
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This is self entitlement at its finest! You are probably being punished for your attitude toward the "undesirables".
I like how you are able to able to consider people as "undesirable", but no one is allowed to find you undesirable.
And something is wrong with society because they find you undesirable, but it's perfectly okay for you to find others as undesirable (but according to you those who you find undesirable belong in that category).
It's wrong to consider me undesirable simply because of my race.
I don't know most IR couples between black men and white women don't really last that long. They have a high divorce rate.
My best friend's parents (BM WW) have been married for 25 + years. It's about the PEOPLE not the COLOR. Two people who don't get along may get divorced
I don't know most IR couples between black men and white women don't really last that long. They have a high divorce rate.
Sometimes black guys get with white girls and are nicer to them and treat them better. I know black guys have talked about my hair and discussed how they were unhappy with the texture. They think its too 'kinky'. They are less likely to nit pick with a white girl's hair and make her feel bad about it.
Ok, I have no idea about the divorce rate. There may be something to that.
But.... What the bloody, blue blazes has hair got to do with what kind of a person a woman is? And, if they black guys don't like the hair on a black woman.... Isn't hat sort of like the pot calling the kettle black? I mean, if they don't like the hair on a woman, then they must not be very happy with the hair they're stuck with... Doesn't sound very intelligent to me.
It's wrong to consider me undesirable simply because of my race.
Just like it's okay for YOU to consider someone undesirable because of "their weight", "their color", "their height". You don't get a free pass because race is the subject. Lol. People get to like what they like.
You fit into that category of women who think it's OKAY to turn down someone for ANYTHING BUT race lol, like color is untouchable when determining attraction. Psshhhhht. Puh-lease lol.
My best friend's parents (BM WW) have been married for 25 + years. It's about the PEOPLE not the COLOR. Two people who don't get along may get divorced
Yeah but there is a pattern with IR couples between BM & WW....the relationships don't last long or if they do get married they wind up getting divorced.
Sometimes I think I am better off w/o BM though. All they did was complain that my hair was too coarse or say my skin was too dark. They made me feel bad about myself. Maybe they are better off with white women.
Yeah but there is a pattern with IR couples between BM & WW....the relationships don't last long or if they do get married they wind up getting divorced.
Just like it's okay for YOU to consider someone undesirable because of "their weight", "their color", "their height". You don't get a free pass because race is the subject. Lol. People get to like what they like.
Yeah but that doesn't exclude someone based solely on their race. "weight, height, and color" can apply to any race or skin tone.
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You fit into that category of women who think it's OKAY to turn down someone for ANYTHING BUT race lol, like color is untouchable when determining attraction. Psshhhhht. Puh-lease lol.
exactly. Anything but race. It's not fair to say someone is undesirable simply because they are black. That is racist.
Ok, I have no idea about the divorce rate. There may be something to that.
But.... What the bloody, blue blazes has hair got to do with what kind of a person a woman is? And, if they black guys don't like the hair on a black woman.... Isn't hat sort of like the pot calling the kettle black? I mean, if they don't like the hair on a woman, then they must not be very happy with the hair they're stuck with... Doesn't sound very intelligent to me.
Yes, black guys would complain about the texture of my hair and tell me that mixed or white women's hair was better than mine. It's very possible for someone to hate the very thing they see in themselves on others. I don't know why this is a new revelation to you
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