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Old 09-25-2012, 01:49 PM
 
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i met this girl online,we are about 5 hours away from each other and what started out as just having fun and texting turned into a something a little more serious..we began talking and texting alot for a few months and she developed some strong feelings for me i kinda did also for her..she even said as to maybe having a baby with me in a few years and marriage..i was a little caught off guard by this but we eventually met up one time and had a little fling together..we recently though had a little argument and i said something that pissed her off and she just said "you can just lose my number" i said yea i will and so on by text..this isn't the first time we both have said we should end this this is about the 4th or 5th time we have said we should stop talking and we eventually end up talking again lol..its been about a week now the longest we have gone without talking and i even tried apologizing and stuff a day ago and she is still just ignoring me..i know she is just upset and wants space..but im really just about to give up and i know she still has something for me because i just know it...should i give up on her or is she just doing the no contact thing until she is ready to talk again or should i just let her go? thanks guys

YES--we have only met one time in person,but we couldn't get to actually have sex because some things got in the way.we did kiss and stuff and we got alot of stuff in common

im 22 and trust me this is the first time i ever done this with a chick.im a face to face person and never done this before,i could easily let her go but wanted to hear the opinions of you guys

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Old 09-25-2012, 01:55 PM
 
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Let it go.
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Old 09-25-2012, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Has any of this relationship taken place in person? Let it go.
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Sounds weird. I'd let it go and focus on meeting girls in person.
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:18 PM
 
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YES--we have only met one time in person,but we couldn't get to actually have sex because some things got in the way.but we did kiss and hang out and stuff and we got alot of stuff in common.
means nothing. the average girl kisses so many different guys by the age of 13 she already lost track. let alone at what age you guys are at right now.
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Central California
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means nothing. the average girl kisses so many different guys by the age of 13 she already lost track. let alone at what age you guys are at right now.
Agreed.

You have to have sex with the girl to lock her in (and even then sometimes, it doesn't work....it's your best bet though).
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Australia
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How old are you?
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:31 PM
 
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How old are you?

im 22
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Old 09-25-2012, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Snap out of it then, you're carrying on like a love struck 12 year old.

That is insane, you have a psuedo relationship and you've still managed to create issues and problems.

There is no hope for a future, at all. This isn't even a real relationship and it's still headed for the ditch.

Move on.
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Old 09-25-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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Move on. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, or even the prospect of a healthy relationship. How long have you been communicating with her? She's already talking about marriage and having babies? Holy cow!
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