spontaneous sex v planned sex

[himain]

I'm sorry but I've never planned out sex. I guess thats one of the bonus sides of being child free!!!!

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by bobman

Honestly ?
I couldn't think of anything worse than that !

Not for us either, but I know people who do it.

Originally Posted by bobman

Story of my life.
Never planned, it always just happens.
One minute we can be washing the dishes, the next we're getting it on.

Same here usually, but there are times I'm anticipating it to happen and other times like your example not
anticipating it.

Originally Posted by bobman

"planned" sex just makes me think of this.


Business Time - Flight Of The Conchords (Lyrics) - YouTube

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Great song

[Raptor76]

Spontaneous all the way! I would love to have someone attack me after a frustrating day of work

[TaoistDude]

I'd say it varies. Spontaneous has the element of pleasant surprise. Planned has the element of pleasant anticipation. I somewhat prefer spontaneous, while my wife somewhat prefers planned as she likes the anticipation.

[stan4]

In the beginning of the relationship, both are great.
As the years go by, I say spontaneous = way better.

[augiedogie]

Both are fun. I've never had sex that wasn't fun.

[BradPiff]

Sex is supposed to be spontaneous

[sinsativ]

I always Plan to have Spontaneous Sex...

[Raptor76]

Originally Posted by sinsativ

I always Plan to have Spontaneous Sex...

I always plan that too...unfortunately my plans have not come to fruition lately

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by BradPiff

Sex is supposed to be spontaneous

The ironic part is that when you have children as himain pointed out. It can become more challenging.
Which is natures intended purpose of sex in the first place (producing offspring).