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There's a huge difference between announcing that he wants to be celibate one month OR the rest of his life. My first question would be "why do you want to be celibate at all?" If this happened overnight I would feel something big was happening and try to find out what it was. So has he gone over the deep end, is he gay and just now telling me, is he no longer desireous of me, has he suddenly developed some type of religous awakening, does he have a , does he have some type of medical issue that prevents him from having sex, or what? I would not get involved with a religious zealot so unless he suddenly became real religious, this should not be the issue. If it were a month it would not be a big deal, although I'd still want to know why. If it were his lifetime I would want to know why, but it is unlikely that relationship would work for me.
Without a medical reason, (Were I a woman), I'd shackle him to the bed and "work him over" till his eyes popped out of their freakin' sockets. In a sequence of smilies:
If that didn't work, and he swore he was straight, I'd have him committed to a psych ward. To console myself, I'd pull out a pair of thigh-high black leather boots, locate a college bar, and find myself a college-aged rugby boy. Girls have needs, and She-Amelorn ain't settling for batteries!
I like your solution. Which reminds me... I don't think most straight guys can resist good undies and garter belts. It drove all my guy friends crazy even if I just mentioned them, so it must work for suddenly-celibate relationships! I would wear one of those types of outfits and he'd probably take his pants off if all else fails.
I don't have a boyfriend as I see no worthwhile benefit for me as a heterosexual gal in having one.
In my opinion likely it'd be extremely difficult to a better boyfriend as in a guy that doesn't have the attributes I listed (her orgasm is her responsibility and sex is a duty can't deny without a good reason).
It sounds like you have some serious 'issues'. Sex should be fun. It should never be a duty.
If you're anticipating that you won't want sex when he does, and this is a man who doesn't even exist at the moment, I completely understand why you can't find a man who meets your needs.
I'm 36. When I'm in a relationship, I'm squeezing in all the sex I can. Why WOULDN'T I? It's possibly the most fun you can have for free (well, if you discount the cost of birth control). A celibate boyfriend would not interest me one bit.
As I'm assured that it is not a problem that will come up in my lifetime, no need to mull over it.
Why? Because you're not a woman, you will never have a boyfriend (and lack of sexiness is a common reason a girl can't get a guy), you're not attracted to men, or you think you're so hot your boyfriend would never say such a thing?
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To console myself, I'd pull out a pair of thigh-high black leather boots, locate a college bar, and find myself a college-aged rugby boy. Girls have needs, and She-Amelorn ain't settling for batteries!
