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Old 10-03-2012, 12:09 PM
 
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What would your reaction be?

Your boyfriend wants to become celibate overnight.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:11 PM
 
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It means she is not attractive enough to him. I bet if that was Kate Upton, no way would he propose celibacy because that would torture him.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:12 PM
 
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For how long?
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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As I'm assured that it is not a problem that will come up in my lifetime, no need to mull over it.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:12 PM
 
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For how long?
Two possible scenarios:
1. For a month
2. Permanently as long as he is alive
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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That would be his choice and it would result in my choice to find a different boyfriend (if I wasn't already married).
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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I'm 36. When I'm in a relationship, I'm squeezing in all the sex I can. Why WOULDN'T I? It's possibly the most fun you can have for free (well, if you discount the cost of birth control). A celibate boyfriend would not interest me one bit.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That would be a huge problem. I would have to know why - but I can't imagine a justifiable answer. Luckily, I'm about 100% I will never have to worry about that!
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:35 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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Depends.

If we are talking temporarily and for religious or medical reasons, then fine.

If we are talking permanently, then unless this was medically related and he was my husband, then I would probably be off finding someone else. If it was due to a medical issue my husband had, then I guess I would have to masturbate a lot and accept just getting a lot of affection from my partner.
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Old 10-03-2012, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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What's the matter, OP? Accidentally castrate yourself or did your STD test come back positive? If it's lack of interest in sex, you may want to get your testosterone levels checked ASAP.
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