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Old 10-05-2012, 03:30 PM
 
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by CaptainJack87 View Post
That guy is not being fair to either girl.

He needs to do the following things:
1. Get them in the same room together
2. Organize 3 some
Proof that honesty is the best policy. "Be honest and you get to have a threesome"

 
Old 10-05-2012, 03:32 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Geography Freak View Post
Does that apply to married people too?
Yes. I think that condemning the people outside the relationship negates the whole purpose and meaning of the relationship. The only person who owes you anything is your partner.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 04:12 PM
 
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Sleeping with someone else's boyfriend is called being a tramp. Go find your own man.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I wouldn't have a one night stand with a girl I knew was involved. Now if I really developed some true feeling for her, I'd respectfully let her know and live with the consequences. Married is totally off limits. Wouldn't confess my feelings, wouldn't have them to begin with (at least not that I've experienced yet in this short life). I hope I'm never in that situation.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by strawberrykiki View Post
I think it's definitely a crappy thing to do...but the ultimate blame lies with the guy who made a promise to be honest to his girlfriend, and broke it. If you're not married then it's really easy - just break up with the person then you can do whatever you want. But to promise fidelity and then cheat is just wrong.
+1

It's always the SO's fault for going outside the relationship.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Chicago area
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A piece of paper is irrelevant. If you sleep with someone in a relationship married or not then you're just as a moral as the person doing the cheating.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I'm sorry, but if someone is in a relationship they are not available. You don't mess with someone else's spouse or significant other because it's wrong and sleazy. We used to call this the girl code, but apparently it's not being taught any longer.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I'm sorry, but if someone is in a relationship they are not available. You don't mess with someone else's spouse or significant other because it's wrong and sleazy. We used to call this the girl code, but apparently it's not being taught any longer.
Yeah, just like the Golden Rule
 
Old 10-05-2012, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Go get yourself a dictionary and learn the meaning of these words:

1. Commitment
2. Integrity
3. Honesty
4. Boundaries
5. Consideration

Once you understand them, apply them to your life.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 10:02 PM
 
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Yeah, just like the Golden Rule
It's OK when it's in a 3-way?
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