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Hello everyone , recently I've met a girl over facebook and we started chatting , she seems shy or thats what im thinking. She hasn't almost any posts on her profile , likes , has only 2 pictures which are serious (no smile) , she seems like a full stoneface (scared / shy) to express her feelings ( she is cancer zodiac just like me so im same at parts about feelings and etc so maybe its that idk.) So we're chatting but she never express or shows that she likes me even in chat. Usually i post hearts , kisses and so on randomly or when im saying good night / good morning and Its always me the one who should initiate otherwise she wont even send me anything never. I know its not a big deal for some of you but I wanna be sure that she likes me or just plays with me? I've talked about this with her and she started sendind back but Im pretty sure its fake since i've talked with her about this.. To mention she is saying that she have never been in a relationship before and she's a virgin , she's 18. So I invited her to go out and she accept , so we were walking around ( she refused to go to a bar or something ) , we were talking almost all the time but she was full stoneface , not even smile when saw me or something. In the end she said to me that atleast i have a sense of humour or something as far as i remember but How did she know that since i didnt make her even smile with my jokes? OK anyway , so after like 2 hours she said she'll go home (before that she showed me where she lives) so i said okay i'll sent u to ur home and i wanted to make the first step there to hug her or mb kiss her , but she interrupted me when i said that i'll Send her and told me that its not necessary and i said again no no its okay i'll come and she refused again. So i kinda felt confused and cant understand her.. Do you rly think she likes me or its just a game for her cause usually Im the one who chat first , if not she wont chat to me or if she do it its something like " dont you miss me?" I haven't been chatting with her after the date , I was online with her and i was waiting to see if she gonna say something , so she wrote me that she feels sad that i didnt sent her home and i said WTF? I asked u 2 times come on .. and i she said that she refused cause she didnt want me to extend my path to home and i think this was most dumb excuse ever , so i just told her " nah its not that , are you shy , are you worried about something ? " she said she isn't and since then we didnt chat till now.. 2 days passed and idk what to do?
Hello everyone , recently I've met a girl over facebook and we started chatting , she seems shy or thats what im thinking. She hasn't almost any posts on her profile , likes , has only 2 pictures which are serious (no smile) , she seems like a full stoneface (scared / shy) to express her feelings ( she is cancer zodiac just like me so im same at parts about feelings and etc so maybe its that idk.) So we're chatting but she never express or shows that she likes me even in chat. Usually i post hearts , kisses and so on randomly or when im saying good night / good morning and Its always me the one who should initiate otherwise she wont even send me anything never. I know its not a big deal for some of you but I wanna be sure that she likes me or just plays with me? I've talked about this with her and she started sendind back but Im pretty sure its fake since i've talked with her about this.. To mention she is saying that she have never been in a relationship before and she's a virgin , she's 18. So I invited her to go out and she accept , so we were walking around ( she refused to go to a bar or something ) , we were talking almost all the time but she was full stoneface , not even smile when saw me or something. In the end she said to me that atleast i have a sense of humour or something as far as i remember but How did she know that since i didnt make her even smile with my jokes? OK anyway , so after like 2 hours she said she'll go home (before that she showed me where she lives) so i said okay i'll sent u to ur home and i wanted to make the first step there to hug her or mb kiss her , but she interrupted me when i said that i'll Send her and told me that its not necessary and i said again no no its okay i'll come and she refused again. So i kinda felt confused and cant understand her.. Do you rly think she likes me or its just a game for her cause usually Im the one who chat first , if not she wont chat to me or if she do it its something like " dont you miss me?" I haven't been chatting with her after the date , I was online with her and i was waiting to see if she gonna say something , so she wrote me that she feels sad that i didnt sent her home and i said WTF? I asked u 2 times come on .. and i she said that she refused cause she didnt want me to extend my path to home and i think this was most dumb excuse ever , so i just told her " nah its not that , are you shy , are you worried about something ? " she said she isn't and since then we didnt chat till now.. 2 days passed and idk what to do?
Oh, so she's passive-aggressive huh? Now it's your fault you didn't walk her home? Wow!!
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
No, it doesn't sound like she likes you. She doesn't even sound that pleasant to be around.
Why do you keep trying?
Look elsewhere.
This is what I'm thinking.
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Originally Posted by funymann
You need to end this relationship.
One date is not what I call a relationship.
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Originally Posted by Yankere94
2 days passed and idk what to do?
Move on? Why are you even the slightest bit worried about this girl? It sounds like a horrible date with someone you don't have anything in common with. I don't think she was worth the effort you put into typing your post to be honest.
So what exactly is drawing you to be interested in her? From everything you've shared about her, sounds like no one would find that behavior attractive.
The girl is a freaking virgin. What do you think? And she has my personality when I was sinlge for forever. LOOOOOOOOL. But yeah, she is 18. Give the girl some slack. She seem to me very guarded. Some people really just have that personality.
Either you deal it or you don't. FYI, I am STILL like that guarded personality to EVERYONE except for one, my husband. I am a totally complete personality with him, sweet and all that. I am a gemini, so go figure.
Keep chipping away if you must but definitely keep your options open and find other girls to talk to.
No, don't tell her either!
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dont you miss me?" I haven't been chatting with her after the date , I was online with her and i was waiting to see if she gonna say something , so she wrote me that she feels sad that i didnt sent her home and i said WTF? I asked u 2 times come on .. and i she said that she refused cause she didnt want me to extend my path to home 
and i think this was most dumb excuse ever , so i just told her " nah its not that , are you shy , are you worried about something ? " she said she isn't and since then we didnt chat till now.. 2 days passed and idk what to do?
