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Old 10-28-2012, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda View Post
why not?

what's the difference between having multiple one night stands, loveless relationships or simply just paying for it.

It's all the same at the end of the day.

who cares?
Well, there you go again comparing apples to elephants - but in this case - I have an answer that even you should be able to understand. My husband has neither been to prostitutes NOR had multiple one night stands or loveless relationships. We are compatible in our outlook on sex - which is one of the reasons that I love him. For the record - I do not think that a one night stand is anywhere in the same ballpark as going to a hooker - but in my case it doesn't matter since the men that I have had relationships with have not been with prostitutes nor had many one night stands.

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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda View Post
how about women who use male prostitutes;

what do you think about that?
I wouldn't marry one of them either. I'm not a lesbian.

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Everyone just needs to learn how to ignore.....Kenneth.
You got that right! This time, though, my answer was pretty simple and clear cut!

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Originally Posted by Bronxguyanese View Post
For some men seeing sex workers is a hobby.
And those would be men that I would not be compatible with.

 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:32 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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And those would be men that I would not be compatible with.

At least you know they can "perform" on call


For the OP....most women would have a problem with it. Best to play mum till the relationship is well developed.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:47 PM
 
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Woman do not date guys who frequent prostitutes because the guy is totally selfish and has nothing to offer.
However, women don't know who frequent prostitutes so it doesn't really matter.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:50 PM
 
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And those would be men that I would not be compatible with.
You wouldn't even know who those men are, however. A guy could have ran through 100 streetwalkers during his lifetime and you wouldn't have a clue.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:51 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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However, women don't know who frequent prostitutes so it doesn't really matter.
Exactly, I know quite a few guys who have in their past and their SO probably has no Idea. Some things are better left unsaid.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:52 PM
 
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However, women don't know who frequent prostitutes so it doesn't really matter.
Probably suited for a gal to assume the man does frequent prostitutes until a lie detector test says otherwise as trusting a d*ck is idiotic to me since most likely the guy won't be forthcoming with any information that may sway her decision to one he dislikes.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:54 PM
 
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Exactly, I know quite a few guys who have in their past and their SO probably has no Idea. Some things are better left unsaid.
Seems more like it's some things are better left unsaid for one person. No different than it's probably better left unsaid for a wife to not tell her husband the child/ren aren't his.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 10:58 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Seems more like it's some things are better left unsaid for one person. No different than it's probably better left unsaid for a wife to not tell her husband the child/ren aren't his.
There is little in common with the two and heres why :

A roll in the hay with a hooker or two 10 years ago has zero to little impact on the current relationship.
Your example is totally different. A father knowing if they are his children or not, obviously has a significant bearing/impact on the current relationship.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 11:02 PM
 
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Probably suited for a gal to assume the man does frequent prostitutes until a lie detector test says otherwise as trusting a d*ck is idiotic to me since most likely the guy won't be forthcoming with any information that may sway her decision to one he dislikes.
Well, all I know is that most guys are not honest about what they've done sexually. I have friends who have slept with all kinds of women (including hookers) and their girlfriends/wives have no clue about any of it and probably never will.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 11:04 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Well, all I know is that most guys are not honest about what they've done sexually. I have friends who have slept with all kinds of women (including hookers) and their girlfriends/wives have no clue about any of it and probably never will.
Same here, which just fuels my distrust of men in general.
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