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Old 11-06-2012, 12:56 AM
 
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I've been talking to this guy for the passed 3 days and him and I are really hitting it off and really like one another. We've been getting to know each other asking questions from serious one's to non-serious like the typical whats your fave color, food, movies, TV shows, etc. So earlier today I had asked him "Top 5 fave movies and TV shows?" that was around 3PM and its almost midnight. He didn't reply back to my question.

So my question is if he does this again leaving me hanging for a few hours should I just leave him be until he replies back or should I text him?

Also him and I do plan on meeting and going on a date later on this week.
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Old 11-06-2012, 04:54 AM
 
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While I'm not a texting advocate at all, I will say that texting a lengthy question like that would take too much thought and time and was just blown off. Save those types of multiple answer questions when you are in person. Don't keep texting and should you decide to don't ask the question again, change the subject. And for God's sake, please don't try to get to know someone and everything about them by texting. Texting should be saved for one sentence questions and one word answers IMO.
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Old 11-06-2012, 10:09 AM
 
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Maybe he's busy or lost interest. Did you make solid plans to meet up yet? I really don't like to text too much before meeting someone. Especially with a lot of getting to know you type stuff. I prefer to e-mail or talk on the phone.
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Old 11-06-2012, 10:29 AM
 
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Maybe he doesn't like to text.
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Old 11-06-2012, 11:24 AM
 
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Maybe you made spelling or grammatical errors and he has higher standards.
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Old 11-06-2012, 12:30 PM
 
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QUIT texting him...it's probably very irritating...didn't you say you'll be meeting up soon?, maybe he wants to wait and talk with you in person....I'd lay off texting for awhile if I were you...just because you're interested in each other doesn't mean you/he should be available 24/7, and truthfully, I can see too much texting as the demise of a budding relationship.
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Old 11-06-2012, 07:31 PM
 
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Well I did text him once more at noon just saying hope he had a good day and good day at work etc. Its not 6:30PM and no reply to that text either. So he must have been busy with work or voting or something else just came up altogether. But I do hope to hear from him soon.
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Old 11-06-2012, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Vero Beach, Fl
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Texting does not a relationship make. Have you even spoken to each other??? I would suggest moving on.
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Old 11-06-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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I was going to ask him to talk on the phone tonight.
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Old 11-06-2012, 08:02 PM
 
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I was going to ask him to talk on the phone tonight.
You already smothered him with texts. You sent two and they went unanswered. Give it a rest and get a grip on your texting.
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