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OK, I thought you all could use a some amusement (and post a little update).
I posted a little while ago about some blatant flirting by a security guard at work. I thought I'd post an update, since it is pretty amusing. Well to me anyway.
So this guy is not 100% my type. Think ex-body builder/personal trainer, that's more like eye candy for me. But I am a chatterbox, and open to chatting up people who aren't my type. He was cute, so it couldn't hurt.
So over a few weeks, he kept flirting with me daily when I was in the office. (I go there 2 or so times a week). He was uber-aware of my presence, if I walked by he would chat/ask me a question. I'd stop to chat for a couple of minutes if I didn't have a meeting. He always has some sort of story, or thing to tell me when I went by. "Hey jade, I had to tell you about this thing I saw yesterday." Other people walking by would get a "hi, how are you" greeting.
In addition to all of the small talk, he'd compliment on my appearance and or outfits.
He initiated light banter, personal stories, light physical contact and even innuendo. I was normal friendly for me and slightly flirty. He passed what I would consider regular friendly or even friendly for a flirty person, pretty blatant in my book (and I generally miss subtle signals).
So as usual I go by, he asks a question about something, and I stop to start to chat. This time he decides to mention his girlfriend is abroad till February. Oh and don't worry he also managed to find a way to tell me about his 6 pack and about how people at the gym ask him for tips. He likes to drop hints about his physique.
Obviously a great option for a relationship. Woohoo! :P And he is still flirting, now. Of course.
Sounds like a situation I saw several years ago, same situation with a girl I worked with, except this guard would talk about him weight lifting and how ripped he was, and how he was dressing up as Darth Vader going to Star Wars conventions...
And some guys just simply love to amuse their egos (and payneesis) with overt flirting even though they are actually unavailable.
Which is the case here. Although I don't know why flirting with me would give him extra validation. It sounded like he already got plenty of validation from other people on his attractiveness. I am not that awesome.
See if you can get him to flex his man-boobs, if his chest muscles are big enough, and get everyone to watch and applaud.
I'm assuming of course that there's not much work to be done.
I don't think he needs provocation to flex. But you know then I have work to do. I think he has more downtime.
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