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Old 11-29-2012, 11:51 AM
 
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Btw Karma doesn't exist......I know for a fact.
The people I have witnessed deliberately trying to break others & even succeeding- have some damned easy lives going on.

It's like they do it & know they don't have to answer for it.
This is very true. Some people do this as a matter of course, almost as if they're hard-wired to do it, and enjoy it, and do not meet with repercussions, at least in this lifetime.

I think this is a VERY sick human being.

Some people say I can be a little vindictive. I'm more of a sleeping dog. If you seriously bug me, I will try to reset boundaries.
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Old 11-29-2012, 12:28 PM
 
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This is very true. Some people do this as a matter of course, almost as if they're hard-wired to do it, and enjoy it, and do not meet with repercussions, at least in this lifetime.

I think this is a VERY sick human being.

Some people say I can be a little vindictive. I'm more of a sleeping dog. If you seriously bug me, I will try to reset boundaries.
I really wanna believe that you get what you give.
But far too many times I've seen good people suffer, & the worst people just breeze through life.
So maybe.....in the next lifetime they'll have to answer for their vile ways.
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Old 11-29-2012, 12:49 PM
 
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Just because you can/the opportunity presented itself?
Not intentionally. That kind of cruelty makes someone a sociopath. I have broken someone by breaking up with him. I knew his heart would be broken, but I didn't realize I could break more than that.

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Did you feel any regret about it after the fact, or did you believe that person was deserving of such treatment for their past indiscretions?
There was some regret, but not enough to take him back. I actually regretted dating him more because we were really good friends and now we can never go back, even after all wounds have been healed.

At first, I did tell myself it was his fault that I fell out of love (he committed an almost indiscretion that changed my feelings for him), but then it had come to a point when that incident didn't even matter. I had fallen for some else and I only hoped to break off with him as smoothly as possible.

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Is it sick having the desire to have someone in the palm of your hand just to drop them like a hot potato?
Yes, it would be sick to manipulate someone. Unless out for revenge, normal people wouldn't do that. Some though might seem to do just that. But they are really just having fun and don't realize they are hurting someone. Being callous is bad, but not as bad as being a sadist.

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I think people who aren't into you act like they aren't into you.
Debatable.
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I'm convinced karma doesn't exist, at least in this life.

Still can't believe people don't understand the term "broken". That feeling of complete helplessness and hopelessness. Emotional turmoil. Having a difficult time just getting through the day. Keeping it together and hanging on by a thread. I guess if you've never been there, it could be difficult to grasp.
Or maybe, just maybe, a few people on here have been there which is why we find it pretty horrifying that some of you people actually take pleasure in doing that to folks. Enjoy your personality disorder, just don't kill me when you finally snap.
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Old 11-29-2012, 03:42 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Btw Karma doesn't exist......I know for a fact.
The people I have witnessed deliberately trying to break others & even succeeding- have some damned easy lives going on.
It's like they do it & know they don't have to answer for it.
Unless you're living someone's life, you have no idea how it is, it's only your perception.

I believe karma does exist. I believe that you don't always learn of or see the results of karma on a person that wronged you. Just because you may never learn if "they got theirs", doesn't mean it didn't happen.
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