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That's only if you date someone who impregnated a bum.
If you date someone who has a child to a decent normal human being, there are no problems, nor requirements on your income.
It seems a shame to eliminate all men who are fathers, based on some inaccurate prejudices. A lot of men your age have grown kids by now, anyway, and are actively looking for another life partner...at least where I live.
Your religion isn't an reason either. All he would need do is obtain an anullment, and he's good to go. You could have the biggest fluffiest church wedding since Kim Kartrashian then.
Do you think you could be friends with a man with out thinking about being married ?
You see that is the problem.
A man that is just a freind and only wants to be a friend( No sex) is too afraid of what it looks like to other potential mail acuqaintences you might hope to romance . Wrong thinking .
If you can't be friends first, there is nothing to hold the realtionship together. nothing.
If you can't have several male friends first how do you hope to know how a male thinks ? you can't . if it all based on romance.
Stop being desperate . it has bitten you repeatedly and you are not learning from it.
Make friends ,no sex. period . no fondeling, no love making, no kissing, not even holding hands, just be friends.
If a guy cannot just be friends, he is not worth getting romantic eventually to begin with. you can still be friends but not lovers .
Be available as a freind, not as a lover . you are not a professional counsiler don't be sucked into a pity party exception , don't . period.
I know several women I an such a friend ,they call me we talk and share ideas no romance just good friends .
It can be done,
Women make me nervous when they buy me things , it is inappropreate .
We migh trade off paying for lunch or dinner but no stuff .
Christmas present cheap , fine .
Expensive inappropreate.
See that your gifts if any have NO sexual reference what so ever, you don't want those signals don't give them.
Wait a minute, you're the one complaining on here, and that's how you react to advice?
Maybe your rigid attitude to life is what's preventing you from being happy.
I didn't watch that link in the first place let alone republish it because I don't buy into sexist dribble, from either side (I report it), so I don't know what you are trying to say by posting it.
When I was younger I often slept with a guy early on thinking it was a relationship. It wasn't, he just wanted sex. Meanwhile I saw many of these men marry other women. I am 41 and will probably be single the rest of my life because I didn't realize these losers only saw me as a piece of meat. Next man who tries to get sex from me will get what he deserves and it won't be pretty.
According to that one thread about how many partners you've had, you should feel liberated that you sleep with a bunch of men. And that you should lie to your future husband about it.
According to that one thread about how many partners you've had, you should feel liberated that a bunch of sleep with you. And that you should lie to your future husband about it.
I just don't get how a person like this can blame having sex for why they're single.
They're probably single because they are the sort of people that do things like this ^^^ all the time and no one wants to go there.
In my 20's I had a smoking body with big breasts and men thought of me as a living Barbie Doll. They liked my body, just apparently not me. I didn't realize it at the time because I figured sex was great but years later I realized it was picking the wrong men.
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