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It's hard. I try to be happy with where I am now but where I am now and where society thinks I should be are vastly different places. It's really society that tells you that you shouldn't be happy until you accomplish this, that and the other thing. Only then can you join the "happy club"!
The funny thing is that society rules talk about 15% (?) of the country. It's not the norm, it's the minority.
If you are happy with where you are then life should be good. Someone doesn't like it? who the hell cares? If they are that much better than you and happy they wouldnt give a second thought about your situation. again....should take my own advice
The funny thing is that society rules talk about 15% (?) of the country. It's not the norm, it's the minority.
If you are happy with where you are then life should be good. Someone doesn't like it? who the hell cares? If they are that much better than you and happy they wouldnt give a second thought about your situation. again....should take my own advice
I agree. Shouldn't care and there are days I don't but there is that little voice that says "you're not good enough, you need to change." Where did that come from? TV? Parents? School?
What is funny is that nobody in my life seems to give a cr*p that I have not gotten far in my life. Nobody treats me any different. Nobody treats me badly or calls me names. So why am I so self conscious about it?
Also, of my last 2 exes, one was a prostitute and drug user behind my back, the other was a gold digging serial monogamist skank who took me for $12,000!
And the prosti-ex, gave me HIV, and to top it off, KNEW she had it but didnt tell me and had sex with me anyways
Because I am HIV+ no woman will even come near me now
Holy ****! If this is true, man do I feel like a complete jerk for even posting fairly seriously about my very small problem.
I agree. Shouldn't care and there are days I don't but there is that little voice that says "you're not good enough, you need to change." Where did that come from? TV? Parents? School?
What is funny is that nobody in my life seems to give a cr*p that I have not gotten far in my life. Nobody treats me any different. Nobody treats me badly or calls me names. So why am I so self conscious about it?
Cause you are not happy with yourself? No self confidence? I dont know...I am right there with you. If you find an answer let me know
Also, of my last 2 exes, one was a prostitute and drug user behind my back, the other was a gold digging serial monogamist skank who took me for $12,000!
And the prosti-ex, gave me HIV, and to top it off, KNEW she had it but didnt tell me and had sex with me anyways
Because I am HIV+ no woman will even come near me now
You win the thread. My issues are of no count compared to the issues you have.
I'm just glad that I have used a condom in every experience I've had. It prevents so many issues
I finally heard from the guy I was seeing. After a few chit chats back and forth he said he's busy this weekend he doesn't know how he's going to get everything done. Guess that's code for don't expect to see or hear from me all weekend.
C'mon who wants to take me on a hot date this weekend!?
I would not recommend contacting this guy at all from this point forward. He has too much baggage (at least right now).
If he gets in touch with you (which he will), I'd think very carefully before getting together or trying to bring the relationship back up to speed. I don't see much upside in it; move on.
Also, of my last 2 exes, one was a prostitute and drug user behind my back, the other was a gold digging serial monogamist skank who took me for $12,000!
And the prosti-ex, gave me HIV, and to top it off, KNEW she had it but didnt tell me and had sex with me anyways
Because I am HIV+ no woman will even come near me now
Damn dude, and I thought doing poopy laundry was bad. I must search deep down in my soul and find fifty things that I'm grateful for today. I have to give you reps just for having such bad luck as well as having the courage to tell us all that bad luck. I hope things get better in life for you. Oh, and about no girl will want you. I don't think that's true. An old friend of mine had hiv. He got it in jail with four other guys. They all got it by using the same tattoo gun. This was in 88 when information regarding it was minimal and also fatal. He lived over 25 years with it and would have lived much longer, but he overdosed on drugs two years ago almost to the date. He was married for seven years. So, there is hope. People are living much longer now with it (I'm sure you know) and there are preventative measures for people to take. You can still have a sex life. I hope your future gets better. Good luck to you.
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I would not recommend contacting this guy at all from this point forward. He has too much baggage (at least right now).
If he gets in touch with you (which he will), I'd think very carefully before getting together or trying to bring the relationship back up to speed. I don't see much upside in it; move on.
He texted me last night at 1 am "hey sweetie, hope you are having a good night"...I haven't replied. Which is hard. I really do like him. But I'm trying not to! Blah. I need a beer! Haha
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