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Other issues aside, this in itself is cause for concern. And you say you've grown to care about this guy? Someone who's unreliably in his feelings for you? Sounds like you're putting your eggs in the wrong basket.
Ruth, I'm just a bit disheartened, but I do understand what you are saying.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Another red flag. Why would you consider pursuing a relationship with someone like this?
Somewhat my fault. Especially since I mentioned something he had told me about his in an argument we were having.
I'm sorry it hurts lass. That sucks horribly. I hope you can bounce back quickly, and find a guy who's willing to let you in on his deepest darkest secrets.
Does he watch a lot of porn? I don't have a porn bias as I watch it myself, but I do notice that when guys watch too much of it, there comes a point in which their sexual tastes start to become pretty twisted. I think it comes from being desensitized to the imagery and thus upping the anti in terms of being extreme. That is the first thing that sprang to mind when I read the OP. Anyway, I agree with everyone else. Cut him loose.
Does he watch a lot of porn? I don't have a porn bias as I watch it myself, but I do notice that when guys watch too much of it, there comes a point in which their sexual tastes start to become pretty twisted. I think it comes from being desensitized to the imagery and thus upping the anti in terms of being extreme. That is the first thing that sprang to mind when I read the OP. Anyway, I agree with everyone else. Cut him loose.
Onglet. He has never watched porn. He never even really mentions it to me.
We've been to a video store one time and went into that "back room", but I guess since I wasn't interested, he never really brought it up again.
That was the only ONE time when porn was bought up.
How are you so sure he has never watched porn? You found out major things in a past through a Google search, god knows what else he's done that isn't searchable.
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