Are men too selfish in the bedroom? (date, women, partner)

[lpfan921]

I hear this complaint from women a lot. The man always makes sure his needs are met, but he doesn't satisfy his partner.

I think it is extremely important for both partners to try really hard to please each other. To be sure, some women are selfish in bed, but i know men have more of a reputation for being selfish. Is this deserved? What do you ladies think?

[tazzled]

None of the men that I've been with have been selfish. But, I do hear this complaint often.

[Dewdroplet76]

Not my man!

[JrzDefector]

Originally Posted by tazzled

None of the men that I've been with have been selfish. But, I do hear this complaint often.

Yeah, same here. My pleasure was always the primary goal with the guys I've been with. But then I prioritize their pleasure as well.

[mexguy]

Not me, foreplay is important to us...

[ChiGuy2.5]

I have never gotten that complaint from a woman. If I did then I would take it as a challenge for sure!

[findly185]

I don't date men who are selfish in the bedroom. I don't know what kind of women would.

[Prince_Frog]

No I'm a giver. I give early and often.

Sometimes I try to give too much!

[filihok]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

No I'm a giver. I give early and often.

Sometimes I try to give too much!

Cue ladies swooning


I'm selfish. Unless I really like you. Then I selfishly want to watch you [PG-13]have a good time[/PG-13] as often as possible.

[The Dissenter]

I want a woman to have such a good time in the bedroom with me, everyone inside the Capital Beltway will know my name!