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Old 12-19-2012, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Northeast
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Let's be real for a moment. Anyone in a normal relationship knows that it's not always perfect harmony or bliss when it comes to sex.
Sometimes a quickie is an order, other times long passionate sex is the deed.

A direct answer to the question, is yes some men are selfish in the sack. But think the majority try and satisfy their partner as much as their partner tries to satisfy them. That's where the love comes into play.....
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:06 PM
 
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Well that is a very good thing then.

Do you go to movies or only read the reviews online?
Faulty analogy as purchases are mainly on individual personal taste while sex has an anatomy & physiology and approach to it.

This is more of 'do I take a medication without reading up on it or do I read the studies about the medication's effects'.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:08 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I can use men without having sex with them or even kissing them. The sweeping assumption is based on studies/statistics. I don't need to to have the real experience of being raped to conclude that being raped may be a psychologically damaging event when rape victims and studies/stastitics state such.

Your amendment is also a fail as I don't plan on having sex as in my opinion for a hetero gal masturbation > sex.
Oh wow. A lifetime of masturbation and no sex? How dull and sad. Good luck playing the tease ... I don't think that gig is indefinite, so plan ahead.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:13 PM
 
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Oh wow. A lifetime of masturbation and no sex? How dull and sad. Good luck playing the tease ... I don't think that gig is indefinite, so plan ahead.
Different opinions and I don't need any luck on playing the tease as I don't make any statements or suggestions that I'm going to have sex with these guys then bail out on the sex. I've already planned ahead for when I get bored of using them for my amusement and entertainment.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Faulty analogy as purchases are mainly on individual personal taste while sex has an anatomy & physiology and approach to it.

This is more of 'do I take a medication without reading up on it or do I read the studies about the medication's effects'.
I disagree. You go through life thinking you can read about it and know everything.

You simply can't. Life needs to be experienced, not read about.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:33 PM
 
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I disagree. You go through life thinking you can read about it and know everything.

You simply can't. Life needs to be experienced, not read about.
Nowhere do I did state, suggest, or imply I know everything. I did state it was my opinion based on my observations and studies/statistics.

Not everything in life needs to be experienced to make a reasonable conclusion. I don't need to experience the adverse effects of a medication to conclude the medication mainly has adverse effects when I can read the studies/statistics on it.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:34 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I've already planned ahead for when I get bored of using them for my amusement and entertainment.
And you wonder why dudes end up being selfish in the bedroom?!
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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And you wonder why dudes end up being selfish in the bedroom?!
I don't wonder in fact I stated my opinion on why dudes end up being selfish in bed.
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:36 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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So you're making sweeping assumptions about something you have never even done?
That's 90% of the posters on this forum!
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Old 12-19-2012, 04:41 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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That's 90% of the posters on this forum!
lol
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