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I'm going to assume she treated him well too...no present required. This is how things get drawn out and complicated and drama ensues. What if he's already talking to someone? A gift from an ex would look strange. What if he really wants her back? A gift would be false hope. LET THE GUY GO.
People need to learn to leave others alone after a breakup. I don't care how well intended someone is, when you break up you need to give each other a lot of space and not be poking with little gifts, text messages, FB likes, whatever. There is time for being friends in the future if circumstances allow for it.
I understand your point that's why I'm not sure if I should or shouldn't do it but there's a part of me saying that I should. That I should show appreciation for all the good things he did. Im not saying hes perfect but he treated me well. I just want him to have it then I wouldn't bother him anymore.
I don't think he's talking to someone because we only broke up two weeks ago and he's a really busy guy. If he is, I don't think he would enter in a relationship that quick. If he wants me back, he would have made it known like what he did in the past. Thats why I want him to have this present because I know now that the break up is for good. We both realized that its not going to work. No matter how much we like each other, we are not meant to be together.
You don't need to follow up with an email, he'll get it and contact you if he wishes.
Should I text him first saying I will mail him a present? I don't want him to think I want him back. The present is just a sign of appreciation of the good things he did. I could write a short note? But what should I put on there?
Should I text him first saying I will mail him a present? I don't want him to think I want him back. The present is just a sign of appreciation of the good things he did. I could write a short note? But what should I put on there?
I'd just put a note in with the present...
"Hope you had a great Christmas. All the best in the new year. Cheers."
Should I text him first saying I will mail him a present? I don't want him to think I want him back. The present is just a sign of appreciation of the good things he did. I could write a short note? But what should I put on there?
No, if you really felt it was over you would just forget about trying to contact him just to give him a present, that's just an excuse to talk to, or see him again, and he'll probably think that too,.
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