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Now the OP is rather vague as to whether he and his female friends had already established there was never to be any sex between them as well as locale as to where these events are taking place, the local bar? his place?, her place? Those factors would matter as well.
Has never really been discussed, and all three of those places.
It's pretty safe to say that if a woman is very inebriated, and you are not, regardless of her initiating flirtation, you should just back off. Why is that so difficult to grasp? Well , any sane individual wouldn't want to be puked on, for starters. While we're on the subject of grasping, where in the OP's post did he say he wasn't drinking also? In what universe does after a few drinks=very inebriated?
Would you want someone taking advantage of your drunken state?
First of all, since I've spent roughly 29 years of my 32 (dating years) in a relationship with someone, I'd have more respect for gfs or SOs than to allow a female friend to cheek kiss, play with my hair, and spoon, drunk or sober. That would be disrespectful to the one I'm with.
You among others are trying to suggest that it is necessary for me to take advantage, coerce, force myself on another woman knowing nothing about me or circumstances of previous dates. Not so, women that have had there hands all over me were sober and cognizant enough to know exactly what they wanted, and they got it.
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First of all, since I've spent roughly 29 years of my 32 (dating years) in a relationship with someone, I'd have more respect for gfs or SOs than to allow a female friend to cheek kiss, play with my hair, and spoon, drunk or sober. That would be disrespectful to the one I'm with.
You among others are trying to suggest that it is necessary for me to take advantage, coerce, force myself on another woman knowing nothing about me or circumstances of previous dates. Not so, women that have had there hands all over me were sober and cognizant enough to know exactly what they wanted, and they got it.
You suggested that yourself when you said that you wouldn't steer clear of an inebriated (to any degree) woman's advances. When you said:
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Not me, I'd try and have her out of bra and panty with a quickness.
That implies taking advantage of or coercion of someone who currently has impaired judgement, does it not?
Has never really been discussed, and all three of those places.
I dunno, they seem pretty forward to me, especially the spooning bit ( I had to look that one up, never heard of it). One thing I always did, when I dated, was whenever we went back to my place or her place was see where she sits first and the pick a seat far away from her and then they always start the "what are you doing sitting way over there" routine , or better yet they come sit right next to ya, or even better, sit right in your lap....then things get heated up. I'm kinda shy that way, let them kind of direct it.
You suggested that yourself when you said that you wouldn't steer clear of an inebriated (to any degree) woman's advances. When you said:
That implies taking advantage of or coercion of someone who currently has impaired judgement, does it not?
Give me a break, you can't be serious. How old are You? What do you think probably 95% of couples that walk out of a bar are going home to do....play tiddly winks? Re-read my statement and notice the word try.....if she's gonna kiss me and have her hands all over me (especially certain body parts) you can bet I'm not going to go get a breathlyzer and call Pat Robertson on speed dial to get approval. Get it now?
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