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You are a dreamer. Most women (even those working at Wall Mart) wouldn't touch a bubbly, overweight, unemployed guy with a 10 foot pole. How do I know? I asked that question point blank many times over. Employment is very important for a modern woman (past her teenage years). That's a minimum. Then comes the kind of employment and income, then comes education. Humans are hierarchical animals. Only well "adjusted" and employed move up the ladder and bring beacon (or, at least, don't live off your beacon). Sure, there are a few exceptions, as always.
How to get a woman to "date" you is an interesting question. But what if you want to find a woman who likes you as you are +/- and who wouldn't treat you as a home-improvement project? Should you fake an alpha male personality (since these get the most of the women)? I don't want a woman to fake her personality and appearance (even though they almost always do fake it ), why there is so much pressure for a male to appear something he's not? You don't like shy, "not it your face" men? Not a big deal, get in line and hook up with confident and showy guys you like.
So you don't actually KNOW now do you?
How to date a woman: have confidence. Everything else is secondary.
Its just post after post after post about how to attract this group, or that group, or why this group of women isn't into that group of men. How difficult could it be. Just go up to a woman, introduce yourself, ask her what her name is, make some simple conversation, ask the girl for her number, or out to dinner, or out to the movies, or whatever. If she says no, then move on to the next. Be yourself. If your of a different race than she is, it is no different than approaching a woman of your race. The exception would be a language barrier, but even that is possible to get beyond if there is enough interest. Maybe I am just use to confident and assertive men. I just don't get all of these lame and whiny threads.
Well, you probably have no clue what it's like being shy. It's a difficult thing to overcome, it just doesn't happen overnight. It takes practice for these shy people to make a decent conversation without being so awkward, let alone ask somebody out.
But I do agree with you on one thing, the whining posts and threads are unnecessary. It's no use complaining when people make assumptions and don't even try.
If a woman isn't interested or doesn't give off signs she isn't interested move on. I say 'if i was their favorite actor crush would they act like this?'. Most people wouldn't play games with a famous person and thats how I treat myself. If you are an ugly man you better have money or be in shape. Women and men are very superficial. Nothing wrong with that. People want the best for themselves. I wont date a person who doesn't match up or near my expectations.
something like 30%+ of the first internet dates end up with sex "all the way", 60% of the first internet dates end up with oral sex or something of that sort.\
Source for these outrageous stats? And who's getting the Mod cut. in these scenarios? Let me guess...the men? Or did the survey not analyze that detail?
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Source for these outrageous stats? And who's getting the [Bleep.] in these scenarios? Let me guess...the men? Or did the survey not analyze that detail?
if that were true every single (and some married) men in the country would be on the online dating services. I call B.S.
So its best to assume that shy people in general should taken to the gas chamber as they are a threat to the uber confident master race.
Look all these kind of thread come down to are assumptions followed by more assumptions and a bunch of anecdotes trying to pass off as truth.
So its a bunch of whining about people not behaving on how someone wants them to behave and that about sums all those threads up in my opinion.
It's not about how others might want you to behave, but if you're not having success in your life, you are the only one who can change your behaviours to get what you want. Whining accomplishes nothing.
It's not about how others might want you to behave, but if you're not having success in your life, you are the only one who can change your behaviours to get what you want. Whining accomplishes nothing.
That quote is not picking sides that counts for everything I read in those thread from both sides. Like I said most of stuff I read is just assumptions to me that solve nothing.
Also in my opinion whats is considered "whining" comes down most of the time to a difference of opinion and some out of left field personal evaluation.
People are very superficial these days and the competition is strong and if you have don't have the looks, the money or you are not a celebrity or a model then you stand absolutely no chance with a certain league of women.
People are very superficial these days and the competition is strong and if you have don't have the looks, the money or you are not a celebrity or a model then you stand absolutely no chance with a certain league of women.
Key words are bolded. What's stopping you from checking out other leagues, besides the ones you now recognize as being beyond you?
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), why there is so much pressure for a male to appear something he's not? You don't like shy, "not it your face" men? Not a big deal, get in line and hook up with confident and showy guys you like.
I call B.S.
