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Old 01-18-2013, 04:36 AM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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Generally, I find the Hard Shell/Soft Center types to be dead giveaways, even though most people mistakenly take them at face value, that's my choice! I once read that Sylvestor Stallone/Rambo can cry very easily!

The Soft Shell types generally creep me out, like seeing the boogeyman!

And you?
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Old 01-18-2013, 04:53 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Can you be more specific by what you mean by hard/soft shelled?
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Old 01-18-2013, 05:03 AM
 
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I'll take a Hard shell/soft center (if they really exist. I know the soft shell/hard center type doesn't exist for sure).

I would not like a guy who crys easily tho (???)
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Old 01-18-2013, 06:20 AM
 
Location: super bizarre weather land
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What is a soft shell hard center type, someone who seems warm and open and wears their heart on their sleeve but is actually a cold, calculating jerk who's sleeping with other people while claiming to be exclusive to you? Or a serial killer at night?
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Old 01-18-2013, 06:22 AM
 
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I'm a hard shell hard center girl.
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Old 01-18-2013, 06:26 AM
 
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Yeah I think what is more common in real people is hard shell/hard center and soft shell/soft center.
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Old 01-18-2013, 07:44 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Do you mean people whom act all like a hard arse and put a front on? Then when children or animals are in need they show their loving side. A soft shell shows their emotions all the time. Comes off wimpy but in reality they are some sick heartless individuals.
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Old 01-18-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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I think ppl like the kind of "surprise element" of a hard-shell..... and soft center.
Like, This guy is so tough and he's super macho and hard0assss, but when one discovers he's actually loves puppies and his mother way too much, it can be cute and endearing to think a tough guy also has feelings and is emotional....like "awwwwwwwwwww"
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Old 01-18-2013, 08:25 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I am definetly hard shell soft centre....... I don't allow myself to get close to anyone until I'm 100% sure I have been told I am emotionless which I don't think is true! Anyway once i am close with someone I can be hurt pretty easily and deeply.
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Old 01-18-2013, 01:06 PM
 
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Neither -- I like soft shell/soft center
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