I would rather be alone my entire life, than deal with an unattractive woman... (dating, women)
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Am I wrong for this? Seems like in my dating life, women I'm attracted to, who I think are attractive end up being no good for me. However women who I dont find attractive seems to want to do everything for me. Like they have a lot of qualities they like, but I can't get over how ugly they are. I've decided that apparently the right person for me is a woman I'm not attracted to. But I feel if I dealt with a woman who is ugly, I'd be settling for what I dint want. I realize that this means a lifetime of loneliness possibly, but I'm going to stand my ground on this one.
Just wondering--how do you know that the ones you're not attracted to want to do everything for you?
There are attractive women out there who can be good for you. They may not wait on you hand and foot, but they'll be loyal, caring, and supportive. The trick is to figure out why your search hasn't turned up any of those women.
Am I wrong for this? Seems like in my dating life, women I'm attracted to, who I think are attractive end up being no good for me. However women who I dont find attractive seems to want to do everything for me. Like they have a lot of qualities they like, but I can't get over how ugly they are. I've decided that apparently the right person for me is a woman I'm not attracted to. But I feel if I dealt with a woman who is ugly, I'd be settling for what I dint want. I realize that this means a lifetime of loneliness possibly, but I'm going to stand my ground on this one.
Ok. I'd rather be alone than be with a man who I find unappealing.
Am I wrong for this? Seems like in my dating life, women I'm attracted to, who I think are attractive end up being no good for me. However women who I dont find attractive seems to want to do everything for me. Like they have a lot of qualities they like, but I can't get over how ugly they are. I've decided that apparently the right person for me is a woman I'm not attracted to. But I feel if I dealt with a woman who is ugly, I'd be settling for what I dint want. I realize that this means a lifetime of loneliness possibly, but I'm going to stand my ground on this one.
You don't say how old you are. You also don't give a very clear indication of what you mean by "ugly." Frankly, I know very few women who I can honestly say are "ugly."
Consider that you may be giving too much weight to what women look like and not enough weight to other factors. Consider that your minimum standards of what a woman should look like may be unrealistically high.
On the other hand, you say you would rather be alone than budge an inch on any of this. So maybe consider doing that.
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